ugh.!!!!!
im like the only girl who has never had a boyfriend!!
wat do i dooo!!!
i think im nice and all but why have i never had a boyfriend!!!
omg!!!
2006-11-24 17:24:58 · 18 answers · asked by i<3PiNK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first you are not alone in this. i know plenty of people whos never had a date in high school, it doesnt matter really because everyone's situation is different.
look, would you date someone because there is a mutual connection between you two or would you rather date 'just because' you've never had a boyfriend? do you want a relationship because you are in love or because you are desperate to PROVE you can get a boyfriend?
ANYONE CAN GET A DATE IF THEY WANTED TO!!! im sure you are really sweet and nice, and you want to see how it feels to be in a relationship. but dont just surrender to peer pressure, its not worth it. wait until LOVE finds you, you are still young, have your first date SPECIAL and REAL then you can go show off and make everyone else jealoused!
now calm down, theres no need to go 'omg' its perfectly natural. if you really want a boyfriend despite what ive said so far, then be more sociable and join some clubs and activities outside of school. that way you'll meet new people and increase your likelihood of getting a date :)
good luck and listen to your heart!
2006-11-24 17:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by lorivs89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never did have a boyfriend either, until I got to college. But my Freshman year there, I met the most amazing guy. We have been together for 5 years now, and he is just perfect. You will find someone I promise. And when you find a real man, you'll be thankful that you didn't have to date any silly high school boys :-) Don't worry hon, high school will be over before you know it, and you'll move on. You have no idea how meaningless it all is... just wait and see.
2006-11-25 01:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by Heidi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I also haven't ever had a girlfriend and I'm currently a soph. It isn't THAT bad and if I did go out with a girl it wouldn't be serious and I'd lose focus on school. But, if the right guy came around for you, you should go for it and not just do it because "everyone else does"
2006-11-25 01:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by sdchaldo27 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it!! Do the stuff you enjoy, and sooner or later you will meet someone who thinks you are great. The more you think about needing a boyfriend, the harder it will be to get one. Guys (and girls) are always more attracted to a confident person than they are to someone who is desperate. Just have fun and keep up with your schoolwork, and the rest will happen naturally.
2006-11-25 01:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by topspin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. I know a lot of fantastic women with both brains and looks who never dated until they were halfway through college. Besides, guys your age want girlfriends for physical fun, not for any deep emotional bonding. So, relax, have fun, do well in school, and be patient.
2006-11-25 01:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh honey, chill out... there is PLENTY of time in your life for guys. They'll come and go. but hey, if you want one, be assertive, ask someone out...i know everyone fears rejection, but if your sweet, how can anyone turn you down? you just have look around and date around, meet new people, and along the way, you'll get your heart broken, I'm sure, but its a part of growing up, and you'll find someone you like, or can potentially love. it'll happen when it happens.
2006-11-25 01:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by Marie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was the same as you . I didn't date anyone through highschool either graduated got my diploma then moved to another city and met someone in college. doesn't mean something is wrong with you. you will see lots of men checking youi out coming up to you in time.
2006-11-25 01:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
HE'S OUT THERE SOMEWHERE LOOKING FOR YOU.
i kno he is because you are looking for him at the same time.
Just get out there and start looking and making lists of how you want him to be like. Find him, Grab him and then Dont let him go.
2006-11-25 01:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by Iselin T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I never actually dated anybody until my first year of college
2006-11-25 01:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by wez312 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying, most guys in highschool are either shallow or stupid.
ur not missing out.
& ur not alone. :]
2006-11-25 01:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by Veritesirum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋