He knows I am a virgin, but I have to wonder if thi wil be a huge turn off to him... would it be a turn off to you?
(sorry not trying to be super personal here, just curious, and need male opinions)
2006-11-24 17:16:58 · 20 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a couple of weeks ago you were complaining of hurting after sex, so either you were not telling the truth then or you not telling it now!!!
2006-11-24 18:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by Martin14th 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not a turn off, there are not many virtuous women in this world these days. If he loves you it won't matter and he will respect it. My last relationship was much the same and the mistakes we made that cost us everything has firmed my belief that sex should wait until marriage. Good luck!
-NmD!
2006-11-24 17:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry someone without having sex first. Sex is such an important part of a relationship, and if it turns out to be terrible, the relationship will be a challenge.
At the very least, you two should have a good talk about your expectations for sexual activity in the marriage--frequency, oral sex, experimentation, etc. Of course, it would be hard, if not impossible, for you to know if you haven't experienced any of it.
2006-11-24 17:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For some reason Virins are a turn on. I guess it's the feeling of..disovery. The first to trend on the soil. It's yours for the taking and to experience something "untamed"
2006-11-24 17:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy with deep espect for a woman, it would not be a turn off for me. It would definitely be your choice. Don't let a man pressure you into doing something you don't feel comfortable doing.
2006-11-24 17:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a major turn on. There is no one for you to compare him to so it means you dont know if hes bad. Seriously. Plus it means you havent been doing other guys so no STDs etc. Very good.
2006-11-24 17:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Helper123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitely NOT a turn off. I'm pretty sure I'd speak for most guys when I say that would be a turn ON actually.
2006-11-24 17:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by wez312 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had a virgin, the idea is appealing, but it's too much like a boat thats never been in the water,
will it float?
2006-11-24 17:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as you arent going to make his life difficult for taking your cherry when you're married, i dont really see the problem---if he's got a problem with you being a virgin, hit him on the head and go get laid(with sumone else- that ought to show him:-))
2006-11-24 17:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Le Wabbit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't be, if anything he should be happy because that means u have the chance to share something special just between the 2 of u
2006-11-24 17:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by coolpotatoeslive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its actually a Turn ON.
2006-11-24 17:18:49 · answer #11 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋