OK. My boyfirend and i have been together for more than a year. I love him to death. BUt I'm getting the feeling that he dont find me attractive anymore. The reason why is because sex. We barley have sex. The other day I was on my period and he didnt know so I ended up giving him oral sex and then when he knew i was off my period ive asked him for 3 days now if we could have sex and I always get the same answer..."i'm tired" or "i wanna go to bed I have work in the morning" Thats understanable though. Bu tif he can wake up at 2 am and be horny and me give him oral sex then there should be no problem him pleasureing me at 12am. He pushing me away. I love him but I wanna be closer to him and love on him but he just dont seem to be interested...what should I do?
2006-11-24 17:00:14 · 14 answers · asked by Cha Chi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a question you need to make him answer. The suspense of not knowing will destroy your self esteem. If worst is true and he's not attracted to you, that doesn't mean your'e not attractive. You could really float someone elses boat, good sex is mutual sex, where both parties are into each other. Stop giving freebies, demand ur turn, if you can give him a slobberknocker, he can surely give you a pantydoodle.
2006-11-24 17:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's showing u every sign that he's using u..thats not right for him to push u away when u want some but expect u to wake up at 2 am and pleasure him. Its time to move on sister...if u dont want to move on just do him like he do u. Dont satisfy his needs until he realize...and when he wakes up at 2 am for head nudge him away just like he do u or tell him uhh sorry im tired each and every time. If he leave u after a while, thats ur answer.
2006-11-24 17:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the reason he's too tired to have sex with you is he doing it with someone else and has no energy left for you. Receiving oral from you doesn't really count because all he has to do is lie there and let you do everything. Do you self a favor and dump this clown. Do it soon before you allow him to start destroying your self esteem and self confidence.
2006-11-24 17:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think he could be cheating? Or do you know for a facttttttt that he's constantly busy working or something. Just because he says he's working doesn't mean he is. How about this.... try getting him in the mood after like an hour or 2 after he gets home from work, rather than right before bed.
2006-11-24 17:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poverty in childhood and Solitude in old age, both are painful. Not to keep yourself in isolation, try to associate yourself with some social service organisation. Never feel you are alone, get good counselling to know the purpose of this life. Nothing is so serious in life. Everything in life is to gain and nothing to loose, either success or wisdom. Try to do some new thing that makes you passionate. God Bless you.
2016-05-22 23:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn all the lights out, light a few candles, and when he gets home, be standing inside the front door in you sexiest lingerie, and pounce him the minute he walks in the door. Don't take no for an answer. Tell him you have to have him right here right now.
2006-11-24 17:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only been together for just over a year??? How is it going to be 5-10 years from now? Personally I need a man who can't get enough of me. He is not normal.
2006-11-24 17:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by Blue eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For to have sex,you need to do it in the best hours.Never when is uncomfortable for him or for you.2am,12am.are not the best hours to have sex,specially if he need to wake up to work.Both need to find the best time to have sex.You will have sex all your life,so,you do not need to rush.Have sex when both are sleeping good ,eat good and when both are really comfort,relaxed.
2006-11-24 17:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's giving sure-fire signs that he's using you! guys are so dumb sometimes! they can't take a hint when to return the favor! honey, you either have a looong talk with him about your needs, or find someone else (and trust me, there are so many others) that will cater to you and all of your needs without excuses.
2006-11-24 17:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by damsel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what is up? If you get a run-around answer that doesn't make you feel any better than stop being so available to his wishes.
2006-11-24 17:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by RHONDA Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋