about a month ago me and my boyfriend broke up.
by deffanitoin i did the breaking but i never was going to.
he was ignoring me for about 2 weeks. he wasnt calling me or talking to me. i was going to go talk to him to ask him what the heck was going on but he took it as a breakup and left saying i get it its over.
i miss him like crazy. idk what to do.
my friends still think he likes me. they say hes depressed all the time.
i tried talking to him on im but the power went out in the middle of the conversation befor we got the whole thing settled.
what do i do?
2006-11-24 15:42:20 · 9 answers · asked by ♠Dino♠ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either call him directly or snailmail him a letter of detail expressing your concern for the direction your relationship seemed to be taking.
He may have had other issues to deal with and could not open up about them at that time - therefore presenting distance that you may have misinterpeted towards you.....
do not push, if he can share his feelings he will.
Express to him how much you have missed him and that you are sorry for hurting him also.
If he does not wish to continue dating at least try and establish some form of friendship - mutually.
Best wishes!
2006-11-24 15:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may have been looking for an excuse to break up with you if he was ignoring you and then jumped to the conclusion that it was your idea.
I would suggest to give him some time and then call or see him to talk it over.
A relationship is based on how TWO people feel, not just one. It has to be a meeting of the minds and hearts for it to work.
2006-11-24 15:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by pleeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open the lines of communication back up and tell him how you're really feeling. Don't play head games. Ask him why he was ignoring you. There may be another reason, or he may not have even realized it. Be honest and caring. Good luck!
2006-11-24 15:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by lyricaldoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you talk o your boyfriend....The best thing you can do is evaluate yourself first why it was happened...secondly, study the problems that cause of that argument and lastly whether he or you are the one made a mistake try to Apology to him in short Humble yourself and swallow your Pride and be patient im sure you will win Him back....man doesnt want/ like a woman nugging on him or keep on manipulating them....
2006-11-24 15:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by HONEYBEEgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out to tok. find a nice cafe order some gd coffee n sort things out. whatever the results is, at least u managed to tie up things.
2006-11-24 15:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like there's a lack of communication here. Sit down with him, no distractions and talk. Ask him how he feels and tell him how you really feel.
2006-11-24 15:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try again.Just tell him how it's gonna be.Sounds like he's the type who might need a little pushing!Good luck!
2006-11-24 15:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by lady2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, dont beat your self up. just call him again. but use a cell phone.
2006-11-24 15:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by blu3_p1x1_st1x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on girl move on girl
2006-11-24 15:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by princess12i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋