Confusion, Confusion... I'd REALLY appreciate your advice.?

Question

this guy and i have had this thing for a while now, and he used to like me (it's basically proven.. i mean big, major signs) but we're both shy when it comes to this, and we haven't talked for so long... i don't know whats going on. i've noticed that whenever he sees me, he gets kind of tense... and kind of freezes up. My friend says he gets really nervous when she says my name. He'll stare and listen to me closely, but when i try to initiate eye contact, he'll turn his head away from me immediately. . . once in a while, he'll keep eye contact for a while, and theres look in his eye that makes me melt... but i don't know what it is. i know it's hard to tell since we haven't talked for so long, but do you think he still has feelings for me?

Answer 1

Why don't you initiate a conversation with him, call him if you have his number or email him. Personally if he cannot look you in the eye then there may be something wrong. Usually if a man cannot maintain eye contact you have to question his honesty or his intentions. Need more info to really tell.
-NmD!

Answer 2

I think your both interested, so just be yourself and if he is nervous, don't intimidate him by forcing conversation, just be present and approachable. If he's truly intrigued by you he will make the move. If he is terribly shy you will wind up making all the advances now between the two of you and if you get together you will have to initiate all encounters for him and soon you will lose interest in such a weak male. Unless you like that type. Good luck.

Answer 3

It sounds like he's just plain shy and intimidated to talk to you. Give him a chance and try to make conversation with him. Don't push him too much, though - since you said you're shy, I'm sure you know how it feels when you're not comfortable talking to someone a lot. Try making small talk first and take it from there.

Also, maybe ask him for his email so you can chat that way. Some people find it easier than talking face-to-face.

Answer 4

All you have to worry about is the shyness. When some guys like a girl they find it really hard to talk to them and do "freeze up" just warm up to him and try to make him feel comfortable. He still likes you

Answer 5

how long has it been since u talk to him if it been 2 weeks than don't count on it and him getting nervous could be bcause some one told him that u like and he doesn't know how to turn u down i am not being mean i am all about specking true

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Sounds like he is just terribly shy. If you really like him just keep talking to him and try to draw him out. Ask him direct questions and he will have to answer you.

Answer 8

y dont u get over ur "shyness" and u make a move
trust me i used to be shy and now i the most out going person and its alot better

Answer 9

clear sign of love struck.

you will have to break the barrier which is created in his mind. talk to him immediately. just say, excuse me and talk anything. ask for his opinion and agree with it. He definitely has feelings for YOU.

Answer 10

you cannot both be shy in a relationship !it will never work !you have to take the initiative and speak to him ! or you will forever be left wondering ! just collect all your courage and go for it !