i and my ex (we broke up, but he still treats me as gf, we r in long D). he is still calling me and said something like he loved me, he missed me, how important i m to him. recently he told me he is moving to the UK for work early next year and he wants to bring me along. i dunno, there are times, he sounds really very true, though there were times, he upset me and hurt my feeling, thus, several months ago i called it quit. i have been so upset and cried almost everyday since then. i told myself i shoulda listen to his bullshit anymore as i think he is just playing with my feeling. but deep down, i still love him. i cant help but wonder if he is really moving to the UK and if he really offers me to live with him, should i go for it? or maybe i will just visit him but shoulda stay there for long? how can i know he is really into me? if he wants me to marry him, does it mean he really likes me?
2006-11-24 15:38:52 · 4 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never marry somone unless you can say you are 100% sure that you want to spend the rest of your life with that person, and you are willing to go through the good and the BAD. usually thats when people bail out.....but thats not what marriage is about. Moving to another state is hard, and a huge deal. but moving to another country is a totally different kind of huge deal, and you are the only one who can decide if that is the right choice for you. Good luck!
2006-11-24 15:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by CoutureCutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treated you bad before, what makes you think it will be any different this time? Before you go off with anyone, be sure this is what you really want to do, because when you leave you may be isolated. I don't know what specific reasons you broke up with him, but he sounds emotionally abusive. If this is so, it will not get better just worse. We always hurt when we break up with someone we love, but in time you can move on. Sometimes you have to let go of a person you love ,for the sake of both of you.
2006-11-24 15:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by VLEEKS47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a big deal for one, you know when it exists. Marriage on the other hand, that's a huge deal. Couples have their ups and downs so to me it sounds normal what you two are going through. If he really loves you and wants to marry you then make sure you know it. Seriously, talk to him about it and make him understand! See how things go before he plans on moving and if they go well, move with him. Good luck!
2006-11-24 15:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, no. You can never really know his true feelings. Of course you can make educated guesses by observing his words and actions but other than that you can totally be sure.
2006-11-24 15:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by WILSON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋