I'm seeing a guy, and he shows signs he's interested, we make plans in advance, he didn't break plans with me even though he got another invite, he even broke plans with his friends once to be with me instead, but my only complaint is that when we are apart he usually only emails me if I email him first. If he was really into me would he be sending me emails and calling often when we were apart? Or is this normal because we've only been dating about a month?
2006-11-24 15:36:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys take a different approach to relationships....maybe your beau is naturally reserved. He may not want you to think he is obsessive, he even may be more comfortable with you making first contact or maybe he is secure with himself and knows that he does not have to constantly be showering you with attention to know he cares about you. Every single person is different so don't compare him & his behaviors with your ex-boyfriends & their behaviors, your friends boyfriends & how their boyfriends treat them, give him a chance....try not to worry....the relationship is new....in time you will be able to figure out his true feelings concerning you....I wish luck in a happy outcome.
2006-11-24 15:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by txflowerblossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be a number of things either he doesnt know if you like him calling you or emailing you all the time cuz some girls dont or he doesnt know what to say but he is still thinking about you the whole time but if he broke plans with his friends to be with you he likes you alot cuz when i guy breaks plans with his freinds to be with his girlfriend his friends dont like that and he could get in some trouble there so i think he just doesnt know what to say or doesnt know if you will like it just next time you go out and see him at the end say hey call me later i bet he will call
2006-11-24 15:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by you dont know me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he call you????? Some people aren't emailers. They prefer to make phone calls. But, if he does not call or email you without you initiating contact...then I will say he isn't that interested in you.
Also, if you even have to ask others whether someone is into you...chances are they are NOT.
2006-11-24 15:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup give him time. some guys ease into relationships, and some girls will dive in...if after 3-6 months he's still doing the same thing i would maybe talk about it...but if he hasn't helped you to feel more secure about the relationship by then, i would say move on. it's hard, but to be in a relationship and feel uncertain about his feelings for you is nerve racking. been there...done that and it's torment. my mom always said, "honey, if you have to assume how a guy feels about you, he's probably not interested." in other words, it should be obvious to you and everyone else...
2006-11-24 16:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maynot be used to relationships, he could also be shy. Maybe he doesn't know how to start a conversation. It totally sounds to me like he's interested; not many guys will break plans with friends to hang out with girlfriends! If it continues like this I think you should talk to him. Maybe ask him if there's a reason for it.
2006-11-24 15:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from my own experiences if he doesnt talk to you that much when he is not with you or near you, he is either busy with his friends or talking to another girl and doesnt want to be intrupted by you bugging him while hes trying to be sneeky.
2006-11-24 15:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by Doisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just normal if your just been seeing for a month. so dont expect too much fron the guy
2006-11-24 15:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh its normal....at least in my opinon....every girl i know had that problem and the guy would be like lets-grow-old-together in love
2006-11-24 15:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetie07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... uaually for guyss they will behave like tat ... nth to worry abt cos i hv many examples like yr case ard me...lol. they are all complaining to me like u do .lol.
2006-11-24 15:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.. .and then watch, CAREFULLY, how he responds.
EA
2006-11-24 15:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋