theres thise girl whos bin my friend for 3 years and i have had a masive crush on her for a long time now. we kid around alot and she makes flirty jokes with me but theres one big problem.
she has a boyfriend
what the hell do i do
i have asked her what she thinks of me and she said im like a brother to her
2006-11-24 15:30:18 · 7 answers · asked by luis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are realy close friends
2006-11-24 15:31:15 · update #1
well if she said you like her brother..you might want to think of it as going out with like your sister!! not such a good idea..personaly i would start looking around possibly see if she gets jelous!
2006-11-24 15:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to tell u this but if she think of u as a brother she probably knows your feelings for her and doesn't return them but it could be because she has a boyfriend and doesn't realized how good u r to her but it also could be she just thinks u r a real good friend and she doesn't want to go out with u because face it unless u r in collage u r going to break up for some reason and that will leave your friendship never the same again
2006-11-24 23:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by alex b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're like a brother to her AND she has a boyfriend...don't bother. is it the fact that she's not interested in you romantically that makes you want to start the chase? save it for the right girl. don't ruin a good friendship...those are hard to come by.
2006-11-24 23:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited too long and he moved far away and I haven't seen him for 6 years.
2006-11-24 23:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by that redheaded chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she thinks of her boyfriend. then tell her what you think of her. if she really thinks of you like a brother she will laugh and feel sorry for you. if she thinks of you as a possible lover she will something like, "gee, i never expected you'd feel like that." then you are on your own.
2006-11-24 23:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by deeperthinker1006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either thats the bottom line that your like a brother to her or she wants you to make the first move.
2006-11-24 23:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by Doisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's gotta suck. wait till she breaks up with her boyfriend and she should come to you.
2006-11-24 23:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋