please help me my friend hates my boyfriend!!! and it is getting me tikked. what should i do she does not agree with me and him going out!! i told her she is not my mother!!!
2006-11-24 15:27:35 · 7 answers · asked by serena d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your right she is not your mother. but she is your best friend and she may be feeling a little left out.so why not take a day or two a week and spend it with her? there is something you need to know if you have not heard this by now. boyfriends will come and go but friends will be forever. tomorrow is Saturday, give her a call have her come over hang out,make it a sleep over, and while your spending the time with her, the last thing she wants to hear about if you boyfriend.really give it a try, you will be glad that you did.
2006-11-24 15:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This usually is not a hard solution, in my experience the girl usually chooses the boy......but if you truly value this girls friendship, then you will make time for her....you are also going to have to tell your friend that who you select to be your boyfriend is your decision to make and your decision only and then thank her for being concerned about you and let her know that you want to remain her friend but the subject of your boyfriend will no longer be discussed between you to. I hope you a happy outcome in this situation .
2006-11-24 23:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by txflowerblossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she told you what it is she doesn’t like about him, because that’s important and she needs to tell you if she feels it’s necessary to tell you that she doesn’t like him. She may not really realize that she is putting her friendship with you in jeopardy. If you’re really serious about this guy, than you should explain to her that she needs to try to be accepting (or at least pretend to be) or she may loose a very good friend, but remember not to come off like you’re attacking her. If she feels threatened, she may say something she regrets.
2006-11-24 23:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to mind her own business
besides your privet life doesn't have to be judge by your Friend
but, why does she doesn't like in the first place does she know some thing about him that u don't know?
2006-11-24 23:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need additional ditails on this, what dose she say about him? dose he have some kinda backround she knows about that she disaproves of? dose he have some thing that gives her the givers? what S it about him that makes her dislike so much?
2006-11-24 23:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might just be looking out for your best interest. sometimes we date the guys that arent good for us. sometimes we dont see that, but our friends do. maybe you should ask her why she doesnt like him. she might have a crush on him. just ask her.
2006-11-24 23:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by blu3_p1x1_st1x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous of you and wants your boyfriend.
2006-11-24 23:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by Rockee r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋