my boyfriend and i just got together and he ims me constantly.
he also tells me frequently how much he loves me and it freaks me out. i need space but i dont know what to do. if i tell him i cant im him for a day he ims me an hour later wanting to talk. i need tips or something to help.
2006-11-24 15:27:17 · 7 answers · asked by Lyra Silvertongue 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really like him though
2006-11-24 15:59:35 · update #1
He is a magnet and u are the refridgerater. Bug him until he is sick of you. Then throw something at him that won't hurt him but just scare him, like a SHOE!
2006-11-24 16:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, he is clingy. Was he that way before you became his girlfriend? Talk to him, tell him how he is making you feel and find out what happened in his past to cause his insecurities? If he does not open up to you, try and get him to see a professional. You probably won't be able to change his behavior, but at least you know that your relationship with your boyfriend is not normal or comfortable and he needs to know that too.
2006-11-24 23:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is probably desperate to be loved.. he probably has some major emotional issues.. how can he really love you if you just started dating? he's probably more in love with the idea of having a girlfriend..
i would recommend breaking up with him. tell him the relationship isn't working for you and you've decided it's time to move on. be honest with him.. tell him his clingy behavior is a major turn off and that it even scares you..
if he doesn't leave you alone, call the police.
2006-11-24 23:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quite honestly, i think his clingy-ness if turning you off. normally i would say ignore them, but since he's you're bf i suggest talking to him and telling him you need space and that you feel as if he is getting way too attached too soon.
2006-11-24 23:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by extreme98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get ride of him. His got some major issues. And you can't fix it.
2006-11-24 23:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh dumpo him i hate guys like that they bug me soo much so im constantly maaking up excuses omg dump him and hop he doesnt stalk you. those guys r the worst
2006-11-24 23:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh god. you gotta talk to him and tell him to stop, that you need to breathe! you could always just ignore him..
2006-11-24 23:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by hex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋