I’m single (divorced) w/2 teens & have a new neighbor I’d love to meet & possibly date. I haven’t dated (or even flirted) in so long, I feel as though I don’t know where to start. I don’t want to seem forward or cheap, since he is my neighbor and I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable.
2006-11-24 15:24:43 · 16 answers · asked by Vixen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well did you welcome him to the neighborhood yet? You can usually do that by baking brownies or something. It may sound corney and I didn't know people actually did things like that but my neighbors rang my doorbell w/ cookies in hand to welcome me and since then we have always greet one another and/or have small conversations, so that would be a way of getting a conversation started and from there have an open mind and you never know where a conversation may lead you one day.........
2006-11-24 15:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by mskash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably is not a good idea to date a neighbor ...but if he is really arrestable bring some food over. Say something that you made more than you and your family could eat. Say whereas you noticed he was single you thought you would save him from cooking a dinner for himself. Be friendly but don't go to fast. Make a friend first so you don;t jump into a heated relationship, find out you don't like him. You will still have to live next to him.
2006-11-24 15:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him getting his mail or something just say hello. That's a good start, find out whether he has a girlfriend/wife before you get any idea's though you don't won't to be the other woman !! As he is your neighbour you want to take things easy, remember you have to live next door to him. You will not seem forward or cheap just for being a friendly neighbour. Take it from there and see what happens. You will soon find out if he is keen or not. Good luck
2006-11-24 15:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your neighbor is single too, then there is nothing wrong. Subtly you may convey your intentions to him. A friendly chat to begin with may help. You may invite him for Tea when children are around and make him feel comfortable with you. Then a visit to the mall together, or seeking his help in your garage etc. could be variety of "situations" you can create to communicate your desire to him.
2006-11-24 15:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not start slow and see where it goes? Start out friendly like a new neighbor does and flirt a little. If he flirts back then go for it..if not then you know where you stand. Good luck_
2006-11-24 15:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all...he has to notice u ..right...when ur notice am sure he will come to u and introduce himself....unless he is really shy......am sure he is probably saying the same thing u r..that he would love to meet u....just go over and introduce ur self as a new neighbor...thats not being cheap..thats being friendly
2006-11-24 15:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by montana_sun_rise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, what you do is walk up to him and try to engage him in a conversation. If that doesn't work invite him over for a house warming party.
2006-11-24 15:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by the_ninja_master8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start by saying Hi to him and get him going in a good converstaion./ Invite him for dinner over etc. to get things going
2006-11-24 15:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what do you do if you hit the sack together, but find out you can't stand him? Move? I'm with Curious--don't date close to home.
2006-11-24 15:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U might call him over for a cup of tea at ur place.
2006-11-24 15:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋