I'v liked a guy for 4 or 5 years now and i'm too shy to talk to him except when i'm with my friends. also he and i are pretty good friends and he has absolutly no idea how i feel about him. advice please
2006-11-24 15:20:59 · 11 answers · asked by hiruka654 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had this problem, just pretend your only interested in his friendship and act like you're a very confident person. Guys love a girl who is confident it makes you seem more attractive.
2006-11-24 15:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
4 to 5 years and you have only talked to him with your other friends around but yet you say... you and him are pretty good friends....if that is the case maybe you can somehow gather the strength up and pull him to the side and tell him that you would like to take your friendship to another level....tell him what you feel....then it will be up to him, if the feelings are mutual or not...I hope this works out for you.....
2006-11-24 23:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by txflowerblossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. If you two are friends now, why wouldn't he try dating you. Besides if he says no, you'll get over it. Trust me, I have had a crush on someone for the past 7 years. I decided to tell him and needless to say, he did not return the feeling, he sees us more as friends, and now I am getting over him. I have no regrets, because if I hadn't told him I would have wondered for the rest of my life what could've been.
2006-11-24 23:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kaylin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fallow your heart and if things don't turn out the way you want then just know there is a special someone out there for everyone and maybe he is not that someone!!! stay Strong and keep your head up and Good luck!!!!
2006-11-24 23:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by socerchic2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that isn't love... it is an obssession... for 4 years and you only talk with him when you're friends are around??
you need to start heating on him, making inferences, dressing up a little!!!
2006-11-24 23:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by ☆ juli ☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him or have someone tell him, and see what happens. You can always just stay friends, but you will never know if you don't try!
2006-11-24 23:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by JoeJOE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm 1st u need to make sure how he feels to u....if he's got the same feeling as u...then maybe u can ask for your friend's help...ask them to give him a hint or wat. If he's got no love feeling to u...i think u better don do anything otherwise it'll spoil ur friendship with him
2006-11-24 23:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Icey Ling 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember these words... the saddest words of touge and pen; the saddest are what might have been. Its a quote, but i really don't know it word for word. good luck.
2006-11-24 23:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle6 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you've liked him for that long and never told him how you felt? take a risk and put yourself out there. tell him how you feel or ask him somewhere.
2006-11-24 23:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by small one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he felt the same way he would have come to you and told you. Since he hasn't, you should move on......
2006-11-24 23:24:36 · answer #10 · answered by Monique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋