If the first date is really, really good then sex is okay isn't it?

Question

If a guy has got me so hot and bothered, I'm going to have sex with him even if its the first date. Just wondering what your opinions are and how long you wait. Oh, BTW, I don't care if you think I'm a S-L-U-T, if it feels good I'm going to try it.

Answer 1

I say go for it. But, if he leaves you after you give it up so fast dont be so supprised. Its your Vagina, do what you please.

Answer 2

In terms of how it affects a relationship's future, sex on the first date is no biggie. It isn't going to doom you to permanent booty-call status or otherwise scratch you off the "Potential Wifey" list. On date No. 1, you can doom yourself with an ill-timed belch. Or by chatting on your cell phone all night. Or by not having an opinion on the war in Iraq. But sex? No. Most men will tell you that sex is a good thing. And good things make good first impressions.
A lot of women think that first date sex is a bad idea because you don't "know" your partner enough. Until you have sex, you’ll never know him. You and the man are in "courtship mode." Everybody is being extra nice and extra fake. Shed your clothes and pretensions as soon as it feels right.

Answer 3

It depends on your views/beliefs, and if you want a second date. Its better to get to know the person before jumping into something you might regret later. I do know what you mean about a really great date, I've had several with the same man lately but, our relationship isn't ready for it yet, we're not even "dating" which means no committment towards each other. Think about how you'd feel if you found out he was going out with someone else the next night and he slept with her too? Just really think things through. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 4

Well...i think it's cheap and kinda whorish, but since you don't care about what people think of you, I think i can say that.

It depends on the guy...soo....

First of all, don't rush in. The guy will see that you're easy, will use you and run! Secondly, the first date is too early to judge what the guy's intentions are...he could be up to something and you have no idea. Additionally, make sure you're safe if youre willing to have sex on the first date. good luck with whatever youd o!

Answer 5

Well....I don't see why you would want to have sex on the first date before you know anything about the guy. You do not have much respect for yourself. You will have a lot of first dates and no long term relationships if you continue the way you are going. Guys "like" girls like you but they seldom "love" them.

Answer 6

If you want to sleep with this guy then go ahead but don't expect it to bring you a great relationship with him. Some guys just want sex and will treat you like a god until you give in. So, if you just want a one night stand then go ahead, but if you want a meaningful relationship then wait till the time is right.

Answer 7

The few moment of pleasure aren't worth the many possible downfalls. You may get hurt, or infected, or pregnant. Others may get hurt. I'm personally waiting until marriage. It is also part of what God wants for me, so I choose to wait. May you make the right decision. God bless you, and good luck with your dilemma.

Answer 8

Its good to hold out becuae sometimes ther may not be a second date

Answer 9

if that's what you want, then go ahead. just don't regret it later. and don't let anyone call you a slut

Answer 10

i wouldnt cause if you suck at it he might leave you and never talk to you again.....that's my opinion......how old are you? will this be your first time?