okay well this boy liked me for a while, and he would alwaysss flirt with me and hint at me and just, he told me he liked me. and we were talking online and he's just flirting and everything, throwing lines at me this way and that, and then he asked me out. i didn't really respond, i didn't say yes, i didn't say no. because i wasn't sure i i liked him. i froze up. i didn't see him after that for about a week because there was vacation and we hadn't kept in touch. and now he's being really mean to me. he's ignoring me, and just being a total jerk. any ideas why?
2006-11-24 15:20:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He feels rejected, and males usually respond with a "Well I didnt even like you anyway" approach.
They dont take rejections well...
Id go back online and explain to him what happened, thats if you even want to bother with him anymore.. he seems a little insecure
2006-11-24 15:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by adnie25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks since you didn't answer him that you don't like him. Send him a note or call him and let him knwo that you were just shocked that he asked you out and that you weren't sure if he was being serious and that you didn't mean to offend him. If he still acts like a jerk, then you seen his true colors and you were right in not going out with him. Good Luck.
2006-11-24 23:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's often like that. Younger guys tend to really fear rejection because of little experience. If you want to go out with him then ask him if he says yes then awesome.
2006-11-24 23:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by bobmonkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c he feels rejected, and he's angry and hurt. His feelings are not your fault, if you never led him on.
Try to talk to him, and tell him what you want from him either, a friend or a boyfriend.
If you don't want to be his girlfriend and he still acts this way after you speak to him I would cut him out of my life.
2006-11-24 23:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by frenchie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has tried being nice. He hasn't got what he wanted. Now he is trying to be mean...should you even bother about this guy? You may find a better partner.
2006-11-24 23:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
any guy who acts like that is an idiot an very childish. He needs to grow up and put a lil hair on his thing then give him a call.
2006-11-24 23:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes pride has been hurt. men are very senitive with thier pride. u should just try to appoligise to him and let him know that u were just busy and ask him if he would like to go out and hang out to get to know him better.
2006-11-24 23:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by crash080285 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you think he would try forever? after awhile he needed to move on... you shouldnt have put him off like that if you liked him and enjoyed the attention...
2006-11-24 23:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by lisa_mynx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he feels like you blew him off and he's hurt.
2006-11-24 23:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by d12.emin3m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-24 23:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋