i have met this guy online about 5 months ago but the problem is that i live here in the US and he lives in Morocco. Although he has been very nice to me and we have been getting along really well, i often wonder if this thing can really go anywhere. I feel that there is really no way for me to check on his story. I can't really know if he is married already, have a girlfriend, nothing.He wants me to come see him and he said that he wants to come live here in the US, but he is waiting on a lottery that they do in his country that reward many people with a green card.
Should i go see him and try to make things work? Am i crazy for even thinking about this?Can this really work? How do i know if he's not just after a green card?
2006-11-24 15:18:40 · 7 answers · asked by emilieeee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distant relationship, will always have you questioning? You need to put all the cards and concerns on the table with him. You're on thin ice though. Follow your heart you always have to read a book from the start.
2006-11-24 15:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one. If he is offering to buy you the ticket, he might really love you. I'm not sure how many people would do that for a green card. If you do go there, be careful. You could find out his story if you did. That's all I can think of right now, good luck on this.
2006-11-24 23:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by blu3_p1x1_st1x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that there are a lot of confused thoughts present now and that with all the uncertainty it would not be a good idea to go there. It has to feel right as rain first and if you are in the mind set that you might try to make things work, then it sounds like the divine love may not be present, and that is not a good thing. Listen to your heart, it knows right now.
2006-11-24 23:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol... girl find you a man that already has legaly residency and forget that dude. That's a heap of trouble for somoene you've never even met before. Let me guess... he is wanting you to come visit him first? So you spend the money to get there and you two have a great time... you return and your conversations fade and he moves on. You're feeling like crap and all you'd get out of it is some nookie and a trip... you weigh it out yourself but I don't think it's worth it.
2006-11-24 23:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg this is sooo far gone!!!!! i dont know the relationship maybe it really is long lost love but seriously REALITY CHECK he lives in flippen morrocco and is probably feeding u bs stories while nailing his 40 year old wife with 3 kids!!!
2006-11-24 23:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
such a long question just takes and wastes our time
2006-11-24 23:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by alireza j 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no nothing last never ever last....
2006-11-24 23:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋