girls are always thinking i am a snob or stuck up and un approachable because of the way i dress and look. when they actually meet me they find i am super easy going and friendly. what can i do to have girls think i am a nice guy from a strangers point of view
2006-11-24 15:11:28 · 14 answers · asked by chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally i tend to be drawn to guys who have a friendly smile. Not a cocky smirck, but that it's okay to ask me for directions kinda smile lol.
I never approach guys wearing ambercrombie clothes they always seem stuck up! When girls say hi to you wave with a cute smirck, not one of those i'm cool nods!! Hope that helps :-)
2006-11-24 15:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. You sound like an amazing person. If I can tell over the iternet then I'm sure girls will see that in you.
There's a lot of shallow people these days. Everyone always looks on the outside rather then looking at the heart.
I say don't worry about what people think about you. Because in all honesty there not really worth your time.
Don't do anything but being yourself.
2006-11-24 15:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a female who had the same problem. Girls were absolutely catty and guys wouldn't even approach me. I finally decided to take the risk of rejection and approach guys. I found my husband and am blissfully happy. Now that I am married girls aren't as threatened. Try making the first move. It worked for me. Good luck.
2006-11-24 15:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by firefly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women are pretty reserved. Attractive men seem to feel intimidated or assume the attractive women are all not single, when that is not always the case. Take a chance and ask the women out. I see attractive men and I never assume they are full of themselves until I hear or read what they have to say about themselves. Then, I run and I run fast.
I hope this help some of not at all...
2006-11-24 16:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well like you said- it's because of the way you dress. You can try to alter your looks a little (not saying a full makeover or anything) just if you know the current look isn't doing something for you- change it!
2006-11-24 15:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by lpfanatic1009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your going to find an answer to that. A lot of girls have low self esteem and dont think a good looking guy will have interest in them. Basicaly, youll have to approach the gilr and let her know that your not to good for her to talk to. Good luck!
2006-11-24 15:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Krista P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest it's not you, but the yong ladies that have the problem. I f a young man is sure of himself , as he shoul dbe, there is nothign wrong with that. if a young lady is not abel to havdle that b/c she is unsure about herself, she needs to work on herself. Continue to present yoruself well (yet be humble in spirit) an dI promise as you get older women (not young girls) will be interested and respect that.
2006-11-24 15:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by BEAUTIFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile, approach THEM first, and be personable. I think you need to make the first move in these situations, because what you're saying is that women are afraid to approach you. Good luck.
2006-11-24 15:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be a little more talkative and initiate conversations. The key is to promote that you are approachable and friendly.
2006-11-24 15:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by Benny the Great 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you dress? expensive clothing? i personally like guys that dress nice and look good.. but i myself would not approach them... also because im shy.. and because im kinda old fashioned... sooo my biggest suggestion for you is to approach them!....be the man
2006-11-24 15:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋