I have been told by some people that I am a cute guy, but yet i seem to think that I am not. I fuss over my looks all day long, and have to check my hair and face in the mirror everytime I pass by it. I spend alot of $ on clothes to look nice. If people think that I am cute, why do i need to do this over and over again. It's really annoyning, and people think im conceited because of this. Please help!
2006-11-24 15:08:43 · 4 answers · asked by Mike89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What messages did you receive in your life that made you decide you weren't ok? There will always be people who like you/don't like you, think you're cute/not cute, but the only person who will constantly be with you, IS YOU. Your relationship with yourself sounds non-productive. Maybe consentrate on helping burn victims, or other people who need your help- focusing on their strife, and challenges (rather than yourself)will help to put vanity in perspective for you....
2006-11-24 15:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by lil_grrrl69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because true confidence lies within you will not find your confident self by compliments from others cause confidence is knowing you've got what it takes. They think your conceited because you seem obsessed with how you look relax already.
2006-11-24 23:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF PEOPLE ARE CONSTANTLY GIVING YOU GREAT COMPLIMENTS ABOUT YOUR LOOKS, ROLL WITH IT. IF YOU HAVE TO KEEP CONVINCING YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE SOMTHING THAT YOU ARE NOT THT MAY BE A SIGN OF INSECURITY.YOU MAY BE OVER-DOING IT ESPECIALLY IF PEOPLE THINK YOU ARE CONCEITED BUT...(THAT CAN JUST MEAN THAT THEY'RE JEALOUS). JUST BE YOURSELF BECAUSE IT SHOULDN'T MATTER TO YOU WHAT PEOPLE THINK ANYWAY.
2006-11-24 23:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let your confidence speark from within you instead of your exspensive clothes and looks.
Be outgoing. be yourself.
2006-11-24 23:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by small one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋