im 19 and i like some guys who are much older (late 30's, 40s) Why? B4 you say it im not a whore or anything, i dont act on these feelings, i just feel it.
2006-11-24 15:06:12 · 14 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing wrong about it. May be its the mature and cool approach of older men you like. But ensure that they are single, if at all you get involved.
2006-11-24 15:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Beliza Ann Furman, author of Younger Women - Older Men , women who are attracted to older men fall into two categories:
They either had a doting father who frequently told them how cute they were and they want a lover who will do the same, or they never had that kind of attention and are desperate for it.
It could also be due to the fact that older men are more settled and secure financially, and, hence, provide materialistic comforts and gratification easily, an ego-booster for many girls, who feel that much more desirable because they have managed to hook a 40-year-old as opposed to a younger boy.
You are not alone with such feelings a lot of women do like older more experience and more settled men.
2006-11-24 23:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think anyone would think you are a whore and if they did is because they do not have anything better to do . Why do I think you do. Because they treat there date's much better and we are not in a rush to do everything and to go out for dinner and rush at that everything we take are time at. but when the night is over you are happy and wondering when is the next time you can go out with us again. We know a little more about life because we where 19 26 30 35 before .
2006-11-24 23:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. It appears that you may be wanting a father figure. It also sounds like you want someone that is mature and stable in life. I would advise you not to get involved with men that old because that's definitely trouble. God is Our Father. He is the number one Big Daddy! Get into God and God only and a mature man will come after that for sure.
2006-11-24 23:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with your feelings. Older men know how to treat a woman, whereas to a younger guy, your a piece of meat.
2006-11-24 23:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Eldude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some woman just do but before u marries one of these older men have a good time live a little because they will get to old to do anything n a few yrs and you will be stuck with a limp partner
2006-11-24 23:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by trashdog1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity. As women, one of our subconscious drives in seeking a mate is to find a duplicate "father figure" that will protect us. It is a primal instinct for females of all mammal species. Understanding where it comes from, it is easier to cope with since opting for older males makes sense if you are an elk, but not if you are a girl.
2006-11-24 23:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you just like their maturity...but 30s and 40s is way too old. You should look for people within your age range - mid 20s at the most.
2006-11-24 23:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is typical for younger girls to like older more mature men, and for older men to like younger more fertile women. That's just how it is.
2006-11-24 23:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in my 40's. Let's discuss it!
2006-11-24 23:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by MisterRE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋