i am more of the nerdy kind of guy, if not for holidays, i would not have noticed how lonely i am, as my school days are filled with lectures, revision and study, i am starting to like school days more than holidays.
i have no girl friend ever since i was born! i saw a girl i fancy the other day, any tips?
post script: i am a shy guy.
2006-11-24 14:55:45 · 8 answers · asked by some guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well one you could get out more see people that like the same thing you do i mean its not that hard and for the holidays the people that you meat you can spend it with them and one other thing if you fancy that girl just tell her you like her one day and ask her if she would like to go out some time to a movie or club or to eat you can always find something to do one more thing if she says no you can always do better
2006-11-24 15:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's not a problem with being shy, and there's no reason to change either. When your ready to approach that girl you fancy, approach her, but don't sit and feel lonely, do something about it.
That won't change your self-esteem, who knows maybe the girl is feeling the same way as you
2006-11-24 22:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by All I need is you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile, act interested, listen to what girls have to say. WE LOVE THAT because we love to hear ourselves talk. (I'm the most honest woman alive!) Don't try any obvious pick up lines or flirtation. Just look deep into her eyes and smile when you talk to her. Ask her lots of questions about herself and her views and respect her opinions.
She will eat out of your hand.
P.S. wear subtle cologne because girls like guys who smell really good.
2006-11-24 23:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a shy person too--but the only way you can get what you want in someone is to talk to them. I come to realize that if you don't at least talk to her- she won't know you exist. Trust me- they won't bite too hard. =)
2006-11-24 22:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by lpfanatic1009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you continue being shy you will end up "alone". Do something ask her out. Don't be a "chicken".You can do it just have some confidence.
Good luck;-)
2006-11-24 23:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love shy guys, mostly because I'm shy. Use it to your advantage, some girls find it cute/sexy
2006-11-24 22:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah go and talk to her and if you get rejected just try again don't be hard on yourself, it's not you its them.
2006-11-24 22:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta get out there and start talking to the ladies
2006-11-24 22:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Phil f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋