I met this man 6 months ago and haven't seen him since. We kept in touch for about a month then on and off for about 2 months, then I left it alone. He was always busy with work, coaching, and co-owning a business. We only live about 30 min from each other, both are mid 20's, live on our own, and have our own cars, so no transportation problems. After I stopped calling him, I waited about a month and contacted him to see how he was, he seemed happy to hear from me, then we faded off again. Then he contacted me through text message a few weeks later, i talked to him, but left him alone after that. Then, today, which is about two months after the last time he contacted me, he sent me a text asking how my holiday has been. We talked for about 30 min he's been through a lot, stopped coaching, having business problems. He agreed to get together after the holiday, but at this point I don't believe it will happen. Men make time 4 what they want to make time for, so what's the REAL problem?
2006-11-24 14:55:38 · 21 answers · asked by Alishia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither of us has kids, he claims not to have a girlfriend.
2006-11-24 15:17:23 · update #1
And I do see other people, I'm not waiting for him, but I guess I'm mainly curious about him since we haven't gone out since the day after we met.
2006-11-24 15:19:23 · update #2
I think this guy has you in a mason jar--he's keeping you around for a famine. He's not uninterested, but not interested, either. I think if you really want a relationship, you will look elsewhere.
I'm not even sure I'd keep this guy in the "friend" pile. He's more of an "acquaintance".
Good luck.
R
2006-11-24 15:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by caf_n_8d 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he is looking for a friend when he has the time for one. It seems as though he is happy to hear from you, but not interested in contacting you back. I think he just wants a friend to talk to every now and then. It seems to me that he is not interested in a serious relationship, even friendship, due to his commitments. He may want to spend time with you but time constraints make it difficult. What you shoudl do is plan a relaxing evening with pizza and a movie. This was he can relax from a busy day but still have fun. Pick a funny move and have some popcorn. Once he realizes that you can hang out, but also relax he may end up calling you more. I wouldn't be concerned, it seems to be nothing more than lack of time and a man being himself! Good luck
2006-11-24 15:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie98_01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It normal to not ejaculate a full load each time. It's how you feel that counts (unless you're actually trying to make a baby). I take it if you know how much semen is coming out each time, you and your gf don't actually have intercourse. That's good news. But be sooooo careful, Grasshopper, because your hormones can so easily push you to go all the way.
2016-05-22 23:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. A guy makes the time for the things than are important. Now if he is busy with work and coaching me might not be able to spend the QT time, but he can make a quick call to say hi. If he isn't doing at least that, then I'd say move on.
2006-11-24 15:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by dcbongo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Come on...give the guy a break...
It seems like you are waiting for him to keep contacting you... cant you contact him once in a while... just give him the benefit of the doubt, that things are really busy... when your business is doing badly, and other bad stuff...it is sometimes hard to get on top of things. And even on top of that he has continually tried to keep in contact with you...so he probably likes you.
If you like him, call him, and be patient...if not then move on.
2006-11-24 15:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by andrewlimuts 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real problem is he doesn't know what to do. He seems to enjoy talking to you, but he isn't sure he wants to get into a relationship. Men like to have their lives in order before getting too serious about a woman. It sounds like his life is out of order and taking a lot of his time. He may need to talk to you about things when you do meet. He probably doesn't know what is going on in his life and will not bring someone else into this mess.
2006-11-24 14:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The real problem, I think, is he IS interested but not enough to follow through. If he was really interested, he'd be keping his eye on you and jumping at opportunies. It's just not enough, I guess. Of course it has nothing to do with you... but you'd be doing yourself a favor by staying open for a man that you won't wonder about his affections.
2006-11-24 15:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the real problem is that he just isnt that inbto you. when a guy falls for a girl, he will do anything to see, no matter what. all the stuff he said to you was just an excuse. if he really liked he he wouldve made time for you. also he feels basd letting you know this so he is stringing you along. thats what guys do. the worst is having to tell a girl we are not that interested. dont let him play you around to suit his needs.
2006-11-24 15:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yo answered your own question. Men make time for what THEY WANT! On second thought does he have kids? This could be one reason he is so busy
2006-11-24 15:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like the real problem is he just wants a friend when it is convenient for him. It is up to you if you decide to get together with him after the Hollidays or not............if he calls. But if it was me I wouldn't even bother.
2006-11-24 15:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋