Im kind of shy and awkward with guys...mostly because i have zip experience. what are some good flirting methods i can try?
2006-11-24 14:49:31 · 12 answers · asked by hippiextrissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start off with some smiling in the direction of the guy you want to flirt with. then when he comes over, say hello. then start some small talk. ask how they are, etc. let him do most of the talking. play with your hair. laugh at his stupid jokes, gently touch his arm when talking. give him compliments too. like on his hair or clothes. goodluck
2006-11-24 14:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is obviously not very experienced and/or very nervous... when girls feel intimidated by a boy, they sometimes insult him because they're too nervous to flirt. It often has the opposite of the desired effect, mostly when guys don't get the fact that the girl may be flirting. (Kudos to you for being so perceptive, by the way!) Go ahead and tease her playfully from now on; she may communicate by verbally volleying back and forth, and she'll appreciate the effort.
2016-03-29 08:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one because it's like, you want him to know you like him but you never want to degrade yourself and throw yourself all over him. (women do this all the time) and it works. But it only works cause the guy figures,( I am sure) well, hell she is throwing herself at me, what else will she throw at me..and then off come the clothes. Just talk and get to know him. Joke and be merry that is flirt enough until he pays for a couple of dinners or something. Oh, and don't give him anything, just smile and be polite.
2006-11-24 14:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you find out you're not as shy as you think. as far as flirting, try touching their arm, smiling a lot, make witty jokes, but don't come across as desperate. don't be fake though..don't make up lies and things that you think will make him interested. and remember, it takes two for there to be an awkard silence. so if he doesn't talk back, he's just as horrible with flirting.
2006-11-24 14:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by extreme98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to flirt, it's obvious. Just hang out with the guys and be natural. (be yourself) Listen to what they have to say, have an opinion of your own. If you're yourself I'm sure that guys will love you.
2006-11-24 14:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...... join some chat/dating site's online!..... Start off being friendly for a week or so, then practice some email flirting, then web cam flirting, and if you like the guy,... meet up in a public place for a date...... Straight up, face to face,.. is too much hit and miss,.. where as online, are guy's who are seeking!...
2006-11-24 15:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing awkward about you, get that out of your head first, second you can use your shyness to your advantage (Im speaking from experience) Dig deep and let out your sexy!! Women naturally have it, sometimes we have to discover it, and develop it.
2006-11-24 14:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by lachocolatreine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few lingering seconds of eye contact and a relaxed smile that will make him feel comfortable in approaching you.
2006-11-24 14:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by miracle2s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know either, you could try smiling at me when you catch him looking at you?
2006-11-24 14:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by Chelsea S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do is just be yourself and have fun
2006-11-24 14:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋