I think i love this guy... I mean hes perfect in my eyes hes hot hes sweet he neva talks behind me or anyone elses back .. He never once has been rude to me hes never stood me up or anything.. BUT HOW DO I KNOW IF ITS LOVE ON BOTH ENDS??
2006-11-24 14:47:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My first question is whether or not you recognize the fact that this person does have faults. I mean, really, no one is perfect.
And, no, love at first sight isn't real. It takes time for love to grow. It is possible to have feelings immediately. With time, those feelings will grow.
He sounds wonderful, but don't jump in too fast, give it time to see his faults and to know if you can handle them!
Good luck!
Love from both ends? That is a more complicated question. Emotions are something that some people are so quick to hide, and you don't want to force the question.
Now, you said he's never stood you up, does that mean you two are dating? Judging from your question is seems as if this is so, then he obviously has feelings of some sort for you. Has he made any sort of comment about the future? Has he ever spoken to you about his future hopes and dreams and included you in them? I understand these are deep questions, huh?
I guess the best thing for you to do is to just take the plunge. Say something to him about how you feel, (but if you feel that saying "love" is too much at first, then perhaps you should reconsider the feelings) the only way to know is to say something!
Good luck, once again!
2006-11-24 14:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by trina_weena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been around for some time now, my kids are grown and gone from home (just so you know a young person isn't answering this). But yes I believe in love at first sight. I have several friends that married the men that "it was love at first sight" and they've been together for years. BUT, it doesn't always work out that way, it depends on both people and how willing they are to work on the relationship. And as far as how you know it's not "one sided", well hard to say how but you'll know.
2006-11-24 14:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once fell in love with someone, love at first sight. I saw that person everyday and I never spoke to him, it was weird. I haven't seen him for some time now, and it seems I'm not in love with him anymore. So, I don't think love at first sight really works.
2006-11-24 15:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in love at first sight. You may lust what you see on the out side at first sight, but how do you know if it is love until you get to know that person on the inside? You can't until you get to know who they really are. Love has to come from your heart and love takes time to grow.
2006-11-24 14:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe in love at first sight. I also believe we all give off an unseen aura that is picked up in your subconcious mind. When your subconcious connects to a persons' aura this creates that sense of 'Love at first sight'.
2006-11-24 14:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by questioningly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love in the initiating sight, yet it extremely is the term i exploit to embody this subject: met a clean coworker and commenced to paintings together with her. In passing interior the hallway the 1st actual time, she presented herself to me and shook my hand, after wards she additionally smiled at me continually every time she observed me, she substitute into continually effective and courteous to me. Her first smile and handshake make me think of of her afterwards and it only more suitable from there, that because of the fact she substitute into attractive and continually effective to me, she inspired me to grin, continually friendly, on no account flirtatious... commonplace, I fell in love or what I substitute into attentive to as love together with her. From her perspective, she substitute into only being effective, because of the fact she on no account gave me any indication that she enjoyed me extra suitable than a coworker. i've got self belief I positioned each and all of the random products at the same time in my head and formed a image of love. After 8 months of now no longer working at the same time, I left the job, i'm finally getting over the bright tug I felt deep interior my physique every time I even thought-approximately her. In in retrospect, i don't be attentive to what you call the adventure I had. substitute into it love? i don't be attentive to, even if it substitute into something extreme. the only way i can describe it extremely is "love in the initiating sight".
2016-11-26 20:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by hume 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because you really don't know that person at first sight,and it takes a while to really fall in love truthfully.
2006-11-24 14:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight is nothing but your hormones talking. Loves takes time.
Unless you are talking about a baby, that is definitely love at first sight.
2006-11-24 14:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be ... because the moment one feels attracted to some one he is seeing all the positives in him the moment he comes close to you....yiou will start seeing the negatives which were earlier hiding .. so if u can accept the scond in both of his behaviours then u are in love ... other wise infatuaton...... experience bolta hai
2006-11-24 14:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by CHANDAN G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking him. Pining over one person secretely just makes you more shy. You should ask him str8 forward if he likes you back. He may not love you but if he likes you you could build something with him.
2006-11-24 14:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋