Im devastated because when my friend asked kyle(my crush the boy that i slow danced with)he said we're just friends. Then Kyles
best friend said that Kyle thought i was brilliant and hott. maybe because he was too shy to tell my friend he likes me?
2006-11-24 14:12:59 · 15 answers · asked by yma 4691 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you get your friends involved in your love life? That is just stupid and something will always get lost in translation.
2006-11-24 14:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you need to realize that a boy liking/not liking you is hardly a reason to be depressed. You should have more important things to worry about than if some guy thinks you're hot. Being depressed won't change how he feels about you.
The best thing you can do is ask him straight up if he likes you and would want to date you. Yes, I know it's scary. It's TERRIFYING. But you have to. If he slow-danced with you, then he obviously cares about you as a friend, and likes to be around you. But you really should just ask. Guys like it when you're honest and straightforward, because so many women play headgames and are never honest.
And if he says no, he doesn't like you - it's not the end of the world. Really. There are other boys (even other girls) and you'll survive. You sound like you're young, still, there's always hope for the future.
2006-11-24 22:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by Asuza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe Kyle's best friend is the one who likes you.
2006-11-24 22:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by peaceful_sorceress 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are to young to be all depressed over some stupid boy, you have all your life to deal with those kinds of issues. Get over it and move on worry about school and studying instead of boys, and where are your parents at that they let you have this much free time
2006-11-24 22:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him yourself...you not going to know until you ask him, dont be scared that is one thing boys dont like a scary, very scary girl...(just scared enough you'll jump on them in the movies but other than that no)...they dont want a scary girl..trust me..ask him in person..write him..email or letter...
tells me how things go..write me back!..Chelsea
2006-11-24 22:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. It's happened to me at times, and all you can do is move on with life. Don't dwell on that. Find another dude to get with. God Bless.
Also, cheer up, and have confidence. And tell him how you truly feel about him, and make a move. Good Luck!
2006-11-24 22:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go up to him and ask him yourself. A real man likes a woman who can fend for herself and not let her friends do the talking for her.
2006-11-24 22:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Megan Z 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is almost exactly the same as my friend's situation. it is obvious that he likes you if his best friend said that and if you feel that he likes u. he is just probably shy.
2006-11-24 22:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move.Take his number and talk to him.If you like him,tell him straight before it's too late.
2006-11-24 22:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by ike mie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's an ego & immature thing, It's easier for guys to talk to other guys than to girls at that age, don't worry about it, listen to his friend
2006-11-24 22:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋