I have't had a boyfriend since the sixth grade. And now i'm much older. I am willing to have a sweet and sexy relationship. But no one has asked me. Is it because i'm ugly? Or my personality? Do I not have the big enough boobs or butt? Will I ever be loved?
2006-11-24 14:05:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie the Lord loves you. You are always loved, never think you are not. Having a bf does not equate to LOVE. Instead of focusing on a bf focus on yoru education, bettering yoruself, workign on those things that know you need to change, etc. When you stop looking and focusing on it he will come. May I add when a young man presents himself, pls. do not jump on the first one that comes. make sure his character is correct, his morals are intact and that he will treat you asyou desire. Do not compromise who u are or what God has placed on the insude of you just to be able to say "u have a bf".
2006-11-24 14:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by BEAUTIFUL 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I just responded to a question just like yours, here's what I told her.... Wow, I thought I was the only one. I may be alot older than most of you, but I didn't have an actual bf ( with the exception of elementary school lol) until I was 23. He's great and we are in a long term relationship, and he wants to marry me. He is from another country and has different or maybe just stronger morals than most, but basically wants a virgin. You are considered tainted in a lack of better words if you're not. I always wanted to wait until I found the right one anyways, but I was getting really frustrated so I'm glad he came along when he did lol. No we have not went all the way yet, we would both like to wait until marriage, but we have done "some" stuff. I hope you are not too young for this convo or think that its too much info lol. I think I did well still though, I'm shy and he loves that about me and treats me great. He also is finishing his last year of college and just got excepted into a medical professional school. So not to brag, but I'd say I lucked out lol and like I said he was definitely worth the wait.
2006-11-24 23:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hi dear,
First of all there is nothing wrong with you, your looks and your personality. Be real, be proud of yourself love yourself. Other relations are also full of true love. Having a boyfriend is not a big deal, true love is all that matters, which you just need to feel. Infect I think you are one of the luckiest girls who are not in to this pain of having a boyfriend, not tied in a relationship of just giving. Most of the time they are not sincere and just play with your feelings and even if they are, they never understand what we want they will be fine for a short period of time than will just be thinking about themselves. And that time you will feel the loneliest person in the whole word. One more thing, There is one person made of every body on this earth, and when that person will come in front of you, you will feel it. May be this is not the right time. I hope you understood me. And no matter how ugly you are, he will see you as a princess.
2006-11-24 22:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by hibafaryal 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't know because there is no picture. However I don't judge based on looks but personality instead. Yes you will be loved, but first you must look in the mirror and love you first. Don't worry if you have the right equipment or not, just except you first and then the rest will fall into place. Take care and God bless!
2006-11-24 22:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anointed71 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont worry. there could be a couple different reasons why you dont have a boyfriend. its probably not because you're ugly. is it possible that boys are intimidated by you? maybe they're afraid of rejection. either way, you'll find someone someday. this is just a phase. everyone goes through them. =] good luck
2006-11-24 22:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by _heartbreak 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I believe you will. Someone comes along then you just know it. You have to go places to know. Trust me there is plenty of fishes out there for you. And yes you will be loved okay. Good luck. Don't think negative, always positive. Because the negative thought always trying to ruin you. Good things will come when you don't expect it.
2006-11-24 22:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
sweetie if ur even questioning ur intelligence or beauty ur not ready for a boy friend.Find ur self first and plus u should wait untill someone really comes up to u that knows u and doesnt worry about ur butt etc
2006-11-24 22:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo user 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
be patient You have much to do before you need to have a boyfriend. There is something in your life that needs working out before you can be open to love. You will be loved but do you love? That is your key.
2006-11-24 22:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont blame yourself if your ugly or your personality.. there is no need for you to change anything all you have to do.. just be yourself. maybe at the right time youll find the right guy for you
2006-11-24 22:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by destiny 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to love yourself first. You don't say how long you have been waiting. Are you involved in activities where you can meet people? You have to be proactive in this and get out there.
2006-11-24 22:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by art_tchr_phx 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋