I'm falling in love with my best friend (it's a girl) but the issue is that I'm married. Should I just stop seeing my friend? What shoul I do????
2006-11-24 13:59:18 · 11 answers · asked by The One 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
loooooooooooooooooool, wow no dont stop seeing her, tell her how u feel and tell her u want these feeling to go away also tell ur wife what ur feeling and ask her for her help to help u get over these feelings.
2006-11-24 14:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
how badly do you love your wife? you can't make a marriage work if your not in love with your wife. Why did u fall out of love, can u fall back in love, are u sure you are in love with your friend, or is it an adreniline rush you are getting for being so sneaky if so then u are not in love. Plus if she is with you while u are with someone what makes u think she will only be loyal to you...
2006-11-24 14:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by Megan Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's your best friend, i think that she might wonder why you stopped seeing her...
definately DO NOT cheat on your wife. you need to talk things over with the friend. what if she doesn't like you that way? find things out first. don't make a big mistake.
how is your marriage? you didn't mention anything was wrong. if your marriage isn't strong, you need to evaluate it.
good luck.
2006-11-24 14:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, stop seeing your friend. But then, it looks like you already knew the answer to your own question. Take your wife out on a nice weekend romantic trip and rekindle your love with her.
2006-11-24 14:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by kewte_kewpie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to think about what you are doing. Besides hurting your wife, what about your kids (if you have any). It is very easy to imagine a better, happier life than the real one you have, but reality will set in if you pursue this and I can guarantee that you will be in for some unhappy times.
2006-11-24 14:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confuse love with a crush. I would suggest ou stop seeing her--like maybe a month, if you still can't stop thinking of her it may be love.
What a terrible prediciment to be in. I hope you can work it out.
2006-11-24 14:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should stop seeing your friend.
2006-11-24 14:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid her like the plague, unless of course you're prepared to destroy a family.
2006-11-24 14:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like your wife leave your girl friend alone or if you don,t like your wife divorce her and marry your girlfriend.
2006-11-24 14:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are already married don't be in-love if you will, you will be doing sin and just continue your friendship
2006-11-24 14:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by jam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋