okay, i am 21 years old - female - and still a virgin. i literally have no experience with anyone - guy or girl. i had no luck with guys, so i have moved on to girls. honestly, i am way more turned on by girls anyway. i usually get wet, but i don't know what to do from there. this is honestly really embarrassing for me bcuz of my age and thae fact that i have absolutely no experience. i have never done anything to myself, and honestly i don't even know where to start. this girl that im friends with(also gay) was rubbing me and i got wet, but i stopped her bcuz i wasn't sure where she was going with it. any advice you can give me? i am extrememly nervous and i dont know how to relax. she kept telling me that i was too tense and to relax - how do i do that if i am embarassed and have no experience? i figured if i cld experiment with myself first, i wld feel more comfortable. and it has nothing to do with her seeing me naked or anything, cuz i have a nice body and dont mind showing it
2006-11-24 13:57:56 · 6 answers · asked by Confused about life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lets do munch, i mean lunch, find the man in the boat and all your troubles will be solved
2006-11-24 14:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by Droptine s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting physically intimate in any way with another person can be very intimidating at first.. it may take many attempts before you are able to feel totally comfortable and relaxed with her.
whether it is with a man, a woman, or by yourself, you have to be totally relaxed and in a good mood in order to experience an orgasm. you also have to learn the techniques that work best for you.
playing with yourself is a good way to get to know your body and to get to know what your pressure points are. ask your partner for some tips on self-pleasure.. it may even help for you to pleasure yourselves in front of each other..
there are also many websites out there that focus on self pleasure.. take a look on google
there is nothing to be embarassed about, tell your partner about your fears and about your nerves.. and hopefully she can help put you at ease when you are together.. it may take a lot of time, but eventually you will learn the art of self-pleasure and the art of love making.. just do your best to be patient.. don't get discouraged..
2006-11-24 14:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never tried anything with a girl before...Is it fun? ;)...Seriously though, I would think you just need to relax . If you trust your friend and you're comfortable with her I guess you should just let her teach you. Of course, there's nothing wrong with exploring yourself a bit too. Maybe try some toys or something?
2006-11-24 14:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by jen l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey y dont u just get ur fingers wet and put them in ur beutiful p*ssy.or buy a porno and masturbate to it with a dildo.listen ill tell u advice for everything u need email me khramtsovskiy@yahoo.com
2006-11-24 14:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Fly_Boy97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem! I'm a virgin too.
2006-11-24 14:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by quiet2sea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try relaxing and not worrying about it--then it will take care of itself.
2006-11-24 13:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋