There's this girl... and I've really taken a liking to her. I met her at the beginning of the semester this semester(college). I was working on maybe asking her out one day, but she shot me down before I even got the chance. Don't get me wrong or anything, I've never really been the sappy love story type. I've actually always liked playing the field. But there is something about her that... makes me feel different i guess? A couple weeks ago, however, she kissed me and I didn't know what to make of it. After she shot me down we still hung out and I had already gotten over her. And YES the feelings of course came back once we kissed. Through my friendship with her though, I've seen that shes not the relationship type; not that shes a s-lut or anything, she's just not into or hasn't wanted a relationship. Im not looking too Let out the L-word, F that. I just want to see what It Would be like to at least try for something. The biggest problem is, how can I keep from getting hurt.
2006-11-24 13:53:39 · 9 answers · asked by Biv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
life is short...play hard. U will get hurt someday and u will get over it.
2006-11-24 14:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by pyt_tlc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really can't keep from getting hurt, but that's the fun of it though! you're up to the challenge, and, logically, you know it probably won't work, but your hearts into it. go for it and see what happens. take your time though, that friendship thing has got you on edge and wanting to take it perhaps a bit quicker than it should be taken this early in, you should listen and lead passively, rather than taking things aggressively, at this point ...
2006-11-24 14:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't not if you do waht you already know you should not do. this girl is not into you and you know it so if you try and go after her she will shoot you down or she might use you and then dump you you already know that you will get hurt if you go for her so do not do it. Have some self respect and wait for the girl that could break your heart....BUT WOULDN'T DO IT FOR THE WORLD that's the girl you want.
2006-11-24 13:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are hurting from not pursuing her more. You don't have to be afraid to get hurt. If you experience it now and learn how to deal with it properly your life will be richer and more emotionally strong. Go for it mister man!
2006-11-24 13:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a tease, bud. She wants you to believe that you can have her and that's what get's her off, but you never will.
2006-11-24 14:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she shoot you down fast... stand up to her and be cocky and funny but not to cocky only a tiny bit.... but that first imprestion is key.... like watch the moive hitch and you will see my child lol
2006-11-24 13:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by BKSTYLE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even broken hearts will mend!
2006-11-24 13:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best advice that i can give you is to....
EXPECT IT TO HURT....before it's too late....
yup..try and go for it if that's what your HEART tells you to do. good luck....; )
2006-11-24 14:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can only hurt you if you let them.
2006-11-24 13:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋