If a girl has alot of male friends, does that mean she does not want to date?

Question

I always assumed that if a girl has many male friends, she just chooses one of them when she wants a boyfriend and has no interest in meeting new men to date.

Answer 1

Hey don't assume it makes and *** out of you and me. Plus I was the only girl on my HS fb team, but I still found my true love.
Here's somethings a girl does to flurt with a guy, which means she's probable looking for a relationship!
How you get a guy to like you!
1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones
2. Smile a LOT
3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him
4. Be REALLY nice
5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser")
6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that)
7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it)
8. Be yourself!
9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care)
10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-)
12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that?
13. Say hi to him in the hallways
14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his!
14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues!
15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones)
16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying)
17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful*
18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa
19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!)
OK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED.........ALL GUYS SHOULD READ!
Ladies: this will make you tear up :)
fellas: read it, all of it! :)
1-touch their waist
2-talk to her
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly
are you remembering this?
6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when you're with your friends
keep reading
11-smile with her
12-take pictures with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back
15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved
are you thinking about someone?
16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-tell her she’s beautiful not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!
20 u need to show her you mean it too
21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff
23-tell her what feels good
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff. small things can still help
we might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things
26-don't lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you
are you still reading this u better be its important
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If she’s upset, comfort her
remember this next time you are with her
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHE’S LOVED
41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always Remind her how much you love her.
you’ll never know when she needs just a little more love

Answer 2

i'm still working on the answer on this one; after having literally tens of female friends over the years that had little, if any, friends of the same gender. my conclusion is that it is what amounts to interpersonal issues; both with other females and with males. as far as other females are concerned, that part is a bit more complex, because a lot of it may deal with being misunderstood, because of percieved indifferences with femininity, (perhaps they're not girly enough, etc.) or the idea that women don't trust them around the S.O. in their life, a moot point which may or may not bear true in the long run. as far as men, i don't think it is so much that they don't want to date, but you can slip into a situation with them, rather casually, if you're willing to hang out, but they may not date one guy exclusively. more of a player mentality, so you have to be willing to deal with the fact that you're probably not the only one.

but the not meeting new men thing, i disagree with. if anything they seem to be more interested in meeting new men than most, and aren't too conservative about that. but whether or not anything happens is anyone's guess. if course you're always told that is the case, and you're only being told that because it isn't you.

quite honestly; if you're looking for something serious, i'd suggest you'd do well to avoid a rather dodgy, casual type of individual that may or may not be that committed to making it work with any one person. it's a lot of fun, and you'll learn a lot more about how the relationship process works than you would from someone that isn't as willing to speak on the matter because they keep their issues between them and their S.O., but you run the risk of turning into yet another male girlfriend. stick with what you know and keep it just as casual as they've kept it with you ...

Answer 3

I actually have *lots* of male friends (slightly more than female friends actually), but I *do* want to date and it's really hard!!

I can't just "choose" one of them whenever I feel like having a boyfriend (wish it was that easy) cause:
1- most of them already have a girlfriend
2- they're not necessarily interested in me romantically (or the other way around -- I actually see some of them as big brothers )

I definitely want to meet new men to date, but sometimes just because I'm surrounded by guys they all assume I'm taken... kind of frustrating actually!

Answer 4

Some girls just get along better with male friends. They arent always trying to steal your boyfriends,dont talk about you behind your back, easier to talk to, and it gives girls an outlook on what kind of man she is looking for. So if your interested make a move but her friends are probably going to make sure you treat her right.

Answer 5

Women that have male friends are usually not interested in dating those friends. If she were interested in one of them then they would be dating because I can promise you that the guys like her for more than just as a friend. They (the men) are just waiting for her to let her guard down a little.
I personally do not date women that have best friends that are guys, cause when anything happens in the relationship who do you think they will go running to? That's right, HIM. And then your going to have to hear one of those "well, one thing just lead to another" stories.

Answer 6

No that's not true. She may have alot of male friends, but that don't really mean too much. I have a lot of girl "friends", but I am married, and have never cheated on my wife, even though my female friends, and my wife and I, get along just fine. It's just kinda that good feeling, to have friends of the opposite sex. (as social friends)

Answer 7

That's not true at all. I think most of the time is that she finds something in the guy that she doesn't agree with, but she's willing to overlook it for friendship's sake. she can't overlook it enough to date the guy though.

I actually think a girl who has a lot of male friends knows exactly what she wants in a relationship, and won't settle.

Answer 8

Not necessarily some girls do that but from experiences some girlz have alot of male frenz because thay have been hurt by girlfrenz and tend to avoid them but the best way to get the true answer is to ask the girl

Answer 9

the main reason is she's scared. when u r friends its friends forever but when that line is crossed into a relationship and any thing goes wrong she loses that friend that's what most bestfriends are scared of so they never try to cross that line even though secretly they want be with each other

Answer 10

Lots of times those are just friends and when she's with them she's just "one of the guys." She may still want to have a boyfriend.