A woman I was dating asked me to an event that was several days ago. I agreed to go and said yes. The next day I changed my mind and never bothered to call and tell her. On the day of the event, I never showed up. I know it was the wrong thing to do. She called later that day and I didn't answer my phone. Now I think about her waiting for me and how she must of felt. I tried calling her to apologize and she won't answer her phone. I keep checking my phone to see if she's called since then and no, not a word from her except for that day of the event when she called. She's gone for good, isn't she?
2006-11-24 13:38:21 · 13 answers · asked by john 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that your unexplained absence at the event likely made her very upset and angry and turned her off for good. You made her wait, you made her very anxious, and you made her lose face--essentially, you ruined the entire event for her. That kind of behavior reflects very poorly upon you and is a good indicator of the type of man you are. You have a right to change your mind, but out of respect for her, you should have called her beforehand to let her know. Sorry, but I think you lost her for good.
2006-11-24 13:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to her house with flowers and something she loves and apoligize make reservations at her fave restauraunt and ask her to a romantic dinner tell her that next time you will never lie to her or not tell her. If she rejects you then write her a song or poetry and send it to her throgh the mail but if she still rejects your efforts than she ain't right for you. I should know if you need anything just email me at comedyqueen17@yahoo.com
2006-11-24 13:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by Star Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you do that???? You know she might forgive you, and believe it, but deep down she has lost her respect for you. Unless there is incredible chemistry (which often steamrolls right over any misdeeds), I don't think you guys have much of a chance. I'm just being realistic; you can certainly keep trying and keep apologizing. It's not impossible... just unlikely.
2006-11-24 13:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by solaralley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably really angry at you, and if you dont see eachother normally, she probably wont ever talk to you again.
Although maybe if you leave her a nice message on her answering machine or send her flowers or something, she might give you a second chance. Good luck.
2006-11-24 13:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by camm300 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, how could u do that how would u feel if the shoe was on the other foot? send flowers and a lot of sucking up to do good luck.
2006-11-24 13:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by msgris2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely; hey, if you ever do run into her you'd have to explain exactly why you had a change of heart. honestly, if you changed your mind that easily, it probably wasn't worth going there to begin with in the long run ...
2006-11-24 13:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope this woman does not blame herself for anything. If I were her, I wouldn't give you one second of my time!
2006-11-24 13:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is wise, she will never speak to you again. You are a jerk. Don't call her and bother her.
2006-11-24 13:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she gone for good? I wouldn't call you back either. You are a jerk.
2006-11-24 13:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really hurt her so do you even expect her to come back she was at 2 disadvantages
2006-11-24 13:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by ekbag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋