I have a friend and he says that I have the perfect personality and I am so easy to talk to, but the only reason why he could be with me is because I'm fat. I know i am and I dont have a problem with it, I'm 5'4 and 250lbs, but if everything else was perfect, couldn't you comprimise a little?
2006-11-24 13:26:53 · 11 answers · asked by **baby~doll** 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a weak character. I think it's probably virtually impossible for him to compromise. I know guys like that. BUT there are probably some other guys out there who would be so into being close to you, they would not care if you are fat... and some who think you're sexy as you are. Find them instead, and let this guy feel your absence and hurt about it a bit. Maybe he'd learn something valuable.
2006-11-24 13:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by zilmag 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys might be able to, but you can't fake who you're sexually attracted to, and he may not be attracted to overweight women. It's not a little thing - in fact it probably sucks for him because he probably really does wish he could get turned on by you but he simply isn't.
Now if you lost weight, he'd probably be all over you like mud on pig.
2006-11-24 21:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets get rid of that stupid thing about "if he loves you, he will accept you as you are" cause thats actually not true, well it is, but not most if the times. So, youre fat, but i mean, you can loose weight!!, if thats the only thing that is stopping you for being the perfect person for this guy, get rid of it!!
2006-11-24 21:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by CaRo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are guys that would compromise, or not see it that way at all, when and if you find someone who really cares about you then it wont matter what you look like because you'll be the most beautiful person in the world to them.
2006-11-24 21:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Hunnybunny00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really liked you then yes, he would look past this. Bringing up your personality and such, while it's probably true, is only a diversion to keep from answering you outright.
2006-11-24 21:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Hayakain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little...
u could try losing a little...75 pounds less would make u a comprimise...
2006-11-24 21:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by God 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he could compromis a little. im not trying to offend you or be rude or anything.
not trying to be rude but.. he would be compromising a lot. [no offense] you are like 100 pounds over weight at least. even tho you are okay with your weight, that is very very unhealthy. your BMI [body mass index] is 42. A healthy BMI is 20-25. Arent you conserened about your health? please please try to change, for *your health* just imagine - if your personality and everything was perfect, AND you had a decent to great body, imagine how you would feel. you would feel GREAT! please im not trying to offend you or be rude or anything.
these sites will help.
http://www.wikihow.com/Eat-Properly
http://www.wikihow.com/Start-Walking-for-Exercise
http://www.wikihow.com/Lose-Weight-Without-Going-Hungry
http://www.wikihow.com/Eat-Healthy-for-Life
http://www.wikihow.com/Lose-Weight
http://www.seventeen.com/health/bmi/spc/0,,665141_665142,00.html
2006-11-24 21:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by ashley y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you whatsoever. You just need to wait for the right guy who will except you the way YOU are, and like YOU for who YOU are.
2006-11-24 21:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Alisono 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure.
Physical appereance is only a tiny bit of what's called love.
:)
2006-11-24 21:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Chris W 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
one important part of a relationship is attraction, if there is none, then it doesn't matter.
2006-11-24 21:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋