Heres the story...this girl, we always use to go lunch, out to movies, and even the occasional dinner/going out with friends of ours. Everything was really great...she likes to touch me alot, and we always use to laugh....now all thats gone, the past week has been really hard as i dont know what has happened. Her B/f did break up with her, but we use to go on lunches even before that happened. I didnt make the move cause i really didnt want to move too fast for the girl. Im so annoyed at her...she doesnt respond to my txt's, unless its really urgent, and she seems to have gotten real distant from me...i have yet to ask her why, but she works with me, and i dont want to say anything yet...i really like her, and dont know what to do...One thing i noticed though, is shes really nice and laughing to everyone else...but shes now got a awkward feeling towards me everytime im there, as if she doesnt want to talk to me/ignoring me. and then we think girls arent evil?
2006-11-24 12:55:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going into a trance and I see......
Cuz girls are retarded and evil, she was wanting to do more than what you all did in the sexual sense, Since you didn't, she thinks this coy act would make you pay more attention to her, but not in the way you have been. just ask her out again and act like you are all into her, she will eat it up. It is her way of treating you like sh*t to see if you give her more attention. but women think men do this to them all the time, but actually we just don't like them.
coming out of trance now..... now what waas that I typed
2006-11-24 13:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bud, comming from a previous "girl" lol, now a woman, I think I can help. This girl you have described sounds like she is going through an issue right now and yes in a perfect world she would share it with you. Yet maybe, she had feelings for you also when she was with the other guy, now that she is single, well she has to decide whether she still feels that way or not. Another explanation could b that she does like you as a FRIEND and now that she is single, she may b afraid that if your relationship continues as it did, you might get the wrong impression now that she's available. Girls, lol who knows the working of there minds? But I blieve you r doing the right thing in not presenting the depth of your feelings yet, but I would ask her if she has a problem with the friendship. You NEED to talk to her, find out if she still wants your friendship, and tell her that you r there for her if she will let you. I realy hope this works out for you hun, I know how hard it is to feel like **** and lonely for your friend/potential girlfriend hopefuly lol Chin up bud.
2006-11-24 21:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by jenny H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... you could automatically assume that she is a horrible person like the answerer before me did... or you could look deeper into it.
When she was not single, she could be friends with you....... and not have to worry about any feelings she might have had for you because she knew that nothing could come of it. But now, she is single, and you are single, and if there is chemistry... she could be afraid. I know that a serious relationship could seriously ruin a friendship and maybe she is keeping her distance to avoid that. What she doesn't realize is that her distance-keeping..... might be ruining your friendship anyways.
I would advise you to tell her how you feel or ask her why she is avoiding you but I realize that that type of conversation is difficult to initiate.
Don't assume that she is a bad person though because there might be more to the story than you understand.
Good luck!
2006-11-24 21:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by fiyera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she is ignoring you and not responding to your texts, then how good of a girlfriend would she be? She is being rude and mean, but don't say that ALL girls are. It's like saying all guys are jerks. Go for someone else, it seems like you could do better. Good Luck!
2006-11-24 20:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by Bri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once in her shoes. I had a guy friend and I knew he liked me, but I also had a boyfriend. My boyfriend broke up with me and I resented my guy friend because I knew secretly he was happy about it. Give her time and act like you really care that she has a broken heart. Don't make any advances, wait for her.
2006-11-24 21:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she might just be playing hard to get. but if shes not talk to her tell her its important and figure out what is wrong and see if you can help fix the problem. Good Luck!
2006-11-24 21:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by mack smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her bf told her to stop having lunch and he'll get back with her. Tell her how you feel. Good Luck
2006-11-24 21:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Precious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you reall like this person and feel like asking her out it is ok. be her freind first a breakup can be depressing for us women and we take it to heart like there is something wrong with us and no one wants us be herfriend and understanding where she is coming from tell her that you are there if she needs a friend to talk to. in all relationships no matter who or how or why i my eyes you need to be friends before you can be lovers or partners.
2006-11-24 21:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by da 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol maybe there is something thats is bothering her she might not be sure if she wants to get so close to u or u did something either way ....u might wanna try to ignore her for a while she might just want attention from u,.......good luck :-)
2006-11-24 21:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by belleclaudis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is either playing hard to get or she may partly blaim you for her and her boyfriend breaking up but the only way you'r gonna find out is to ask her,-mimie
2006-11-24 21:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by prty grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋