Here is my story. Please don't be rude, just dont answer if you are going to be rude. I live in AZ, my girlfriend lives in NY. We've never met but we really want to. Its a serious relationship to me and her. In my past girls have cheated on me, hurt me, and used me. I'm very controlling of my girlfriend in NY. Not scary controlling but like "what friends are you going out with type stuff". I dont want to lose her. I love her with everything that I am, but shes done some things that point that she could hurt me. Shes my perfect girl in every single way. I need her. It's just, shes about to break down because of my controllingness, but I cant help it because women cant be trusted. I've heard every excuse as far as cheating such as "He kissed me, I didnt want him to" and "I'm sorry I just wasnt thinking". I'm not immature, she isnt either, we're both old enough to understand true love and understand relationships, im just scared to lose her because I dont trust her, any ideas?
2006-11-24 12:43:16 · 3 answers · asked by atomicenergy13 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every girl i've known has cheated on me or hurt me, they really cant be trusted it seems. I do know what true love is, and you're right, it isnt how its described.
2006-11-24 12:53:37 · update #1
I'm just very confused. I dont want to lose her so badly I feel like I have to get her to stay. The girls i've been with before have ALL been unfaithful and betrayed me and it seems like 95% of girls at this age are like that.
2006-11-26 13:10:40 · update #2
the only way for this to work out if you go see her and you tell her how you feel..then promise to trust her. Lond distance online relationship is hard considering you only talk over the phone and chat online. since your the guy, you have to initiate the next move to solidify your relationship. Trust her..
2006-11-24 12:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"we're old enough to understand true love."
it takes TRUST to love someone. if you can't trust her, either she doesn't love you or you don't love her.
if you love her, just take her word for it and true love forgives. if you feel you need to control her, then that's not love either. come on, true love is not like what you described.
2006-11-24 12:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A RELATIONSHIP WONT WORK WITH NO TRUST
and how dare u say women cant be trusted
2006-11-24 12:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by native,pride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋