I usually end up arguing with the guys I like. (mostly over petty reasons. my friends call me a feminist, and a hot-headed overreactor when it comes to guys) I think It's probably a psychological thing - I don't have time for a boyfriend, so I go into denial. I argue with them to try to convince myself that I don't really like them all that much. I'm pretty young now (under 20), but will it end up being a problem for me relationship wise? If so, how do I stop myself?
2006-11-24 12:34:30 · 11 answers · asked by qq 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have argued and then apologized to them, but that doesn't seem to fix the rift. I don't think it's a self esteem issue either, because I'm pretty self confident.
2006-11-24 12:42:40 · update #1
not really, its the classic way every person starts flirting, little boys in grade school always hit and pick on the girls they like, that just must be your way of flirting, i would try to think about it when you are around them and you are trying to flirt not to get into a heated arguement but saying something kinda sly or something unexpected
2006-11-24 12:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by **baby~doll** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are doing it because you have self-esteem issues and you are afraid of being rejected. If you pick fights with them, then how can they possibly know your true feelings. It is a cover and the sooner you deal with your problems about loving yourself, the sooner you will find someone to love you too.
2006-11-24 12:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i argue with guy's i like all the time, it's completely normal it's just an unintentional way of flirting
2006-11-24 13:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a classic case of you need a bare bottom spanking w/ a ping pong paddle.
2006-11-24 12:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to be more calm,and treat your guy friend like any other,you need attention.
2006-11-24 12:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by ike mie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just think you are nervous when you are around guys i know it's embarassing but an appology would straighten things up
2006-11-24 12:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by wizard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fighting is good cuz u see the otehr side of their personality... but try to esplain that u are busy n stuff....it will avoid fights that couse stress
2006-11-24 12:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its kool im lez well u care about her alot so maybe ur just dreamin about her that happens 2 me or have u told her u like her maybe if u havent its time u did
2016-05-22 23:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to you conscience.
2006-11-24 12:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by fe2bsho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEE A SHRINK
2006-11-24 12:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋