i really like him. how should i get his attention?

Question

he and i are really good friends. we even talk on the phone in the middle of the night.he recently got a girlfriend, though.

Answer 1

You can try to make him like you better than his girlfriend.By being nice to him and all that.....but remember *be yourself* That wil make him notice you!

Good luck!

Answer 2

Some expectations of a good boyfriend
12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.
11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.
10) Kisses you every chance he gets.
9) Holds you close when your cold.
8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.
7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)
6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.
5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.
4) When people diss you he stands up for you.
3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.
2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.
1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)
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How you get a guy to like you!
1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones
2. Smile a LOT
3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him
4. Be REALLY nice
5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser")
6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that)
7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it)
8. Be yourself!
9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care)
10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-)
12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that?
13. Say hi to him in the hallways
14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his!
14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues!
15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones)
16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying)
17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful*
18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa
19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!)
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If you think the one you love is worried about you two having a relationship then do the following:
1. Relax. Dont think so much.
2. With the parents, speak only when you know exactly what you’re going to say and you know they will reply well to what you have said.
3. With the ex. If you think she’s still into him ask her. Dont be accusing though that could be bad. Say something like: if you say you like only me ill believe you I just want to hear it from you.
4. Good luck and dont forget to chill.

Answer 3

Ok girlfriend this is a true opinion from a girl who knows best, please dont listen to the first advise, that guy should be ashame of himself. Ok hon ask yourself this question if u were his girl would u want one of his friend which is a girl also to like and want to take him away from u, when u answer that question u would know what to do. yes his interesting and nice to u but thats what gets in our girls head causing us not to think straight. girl am telling find someone else and take ur mind off him. little hint stop talking to him so often cause that is what is getting u attached to him.instead just be a friend when a friend is needed ok. we always wants guys like that but when they do come around they are taken but if we take them away from the one who has them already, then they will be taken away from us. trust me ur man is out there some where and if it is him hon, u dont need to put extra work to be with him, let life play its course.

Answer 4

i totally know what you're going through. i got lucky and they broke up but heres some advice for your situation.
step one: wait. keep talking and let the relationship grow. when you reach the point when you can feel his eyes on you and hear what hes not saying and you cant stand not having him any longer

step two: kiss him. i dont mean walking down the street and a peck on the lips. i mean run up to him say i know you have a girlfriend but... and grab his face and kiss him so passionately his mother would blush if she was there. then either run away to keep him interested or say something cute first.

step three: wait again.

i hope this works for your situation. ask if you need anything else:)

Answer 5

hi my name's kristen, and ive been in almost the exact same situation. first things first; be forward, but not overly so. what i mean by this is, dont try to break them up. i had a friend who did that bcuz she really liked a guy we went to school with. what ended up happening was the guy that she liked told her that they werent friends nemore bcuz of what she did. wut u can do though is tell him how u feel. if hes a true friend, then he'll understand. of course, don't tell him when his girlfriend's around. if he doesnt share ur feelings, then hope u can still be friends and move on. there are plenty of other guys out there. but on the other hand, him going out with this other girl could be his crazy plan to make u jealous. u never know......;p

Answer 6

He has a girlfriend. You're not his girlfriend. Don't break them up.

Answer 7

Anty up girl, No Free Lunch,
You must show him ur boobs.

Answer 8

When you're next together and you have a little privacy, take off your panty and give it to him.

Answer 9

hes got a gf..leaVE him be