wat can u do to win a guys haert?

Question

well you see here is this one guy i todaly like and I cant get him of my mind I dont even know if he likes me but every time wen im there with him I dont know wat to say or wat to do I realy dont know . and im moveing and im going to miss him adn his like 3 years older than me wat should I do to like me and just wanna hold me???

Answer 1

Just be yourself. That is all you need. Let him fall in love with the real you. Remember time tells all.

Answer 2

Here are a few of my personal notes about how I got my true love on the first shot.
How you get a guy to like you!
1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones
2. Smile a LOT
3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him
4. Be REALLY nice
5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser")
6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that)
7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it)
8. Be yourself!
9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care)
10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-)
12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that?
13. Say hi to him in the hallways
14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his!
14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues!
15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones)
16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying)
17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful*
18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa
19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!)
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Make sure you have Some expectations of a good boyfriend
12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.
11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.
10) Kisses you every chance he gets.
9) Holds you close when your cold.
8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.
7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)
6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.
5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.
4) When people diss you he stands up for you.
3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.
2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.
1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)


MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCES! ~ALISON~

Answer 3

tell him how you feel otherwise you'll never know. When I was younger had crushes on guys and I was way too shy to ever say anything , after catching up with the same guys from my past I found that after having admitted how i felt about them years back three of them said "why didn't you say anything?". It's the kind of thing you just work up enough courage and take a chance on. You don't win big unless you take a gamble

Answer 4

Just muster up all the courage in your bones and talk to him. That is the only way.

Answer 5

just go up to him and tell him ur name and just talk about stuff, like weather catz dogz age stuff then , when you get a good enough relationship ask him for his phone # (or he may ask u first)

Answer 6

cook for him
give him the remote
get him a fresh beer
dont ask him if u look fat,
and never ask him what he is thinking.. bc they are always thinkin sex, food, intertainment (usually sports)

Answer 7

BE URSELF AND TELL HIM U REALLY LIKE HIM AND WOULDNT MIND A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP SINCE HES MOVING.

Answer 8

I don't understand your question + you are moving out there is no reson to him love you....

Answer 9

JUST SIMPLY BE YOURSELF. FIND THE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF TO LET HIM KNOW YOU ARE INTERESTED.

Answer 10

well tell him how you feel ..You will have more of these feelings as you get older .Infatuation is normal.goodluck