ive been w/ him for 21/2yrs living 2gether for almost 2 yrs and things were great then he broke up w/me 2 days b4 thanksgiving and then tells me hes talking to someone then on thanksgiving leaves to go meet her and then the same the next night we are doing the letrs be friends thing for now and i am not moving nowhere to go and hes ok with that
2006-11-24 12:05:41 · 14 answers · asked by samantha j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a mess. One of you needs to find another place to live. That is not a healthy way for you to try and live. You need to be away from him instead of having his new girl friend rubbed in your face all the time.
2006-11-24 12:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very hard and I'm so sorry you have to go through that. It is hard to love him so much and have him around you everyday, knowing that you may never get another chance again. The only thing you can do, is show him how you've changed. And keep going with your life. Take it one day at a time, the pain will dull. Keep yourself busy with hobbies and your children. Talk to him, see if he'll ever think he is ready for another chance. And try to let go of all of the things that you accused him of/that you fought about. Life is to short.
2016-05-22 23:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to continue living there, then you are going to have to tolerate him bringing home dates/friends (if it's his place). You can either move out or find ways to occupy yourself...it's pretty cold hearted of him to do that, but he apparently isn't a kewl person since he'd already found someone else before he broke up with you...
Why be sad about losing that kind of person? He's not worth crying over...get yourself in a position to move out as soon as you can, and get on with your life...he's not worth the energy it would take to be upset over...
2006-11-24 12:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex of 4 years was married within 2 months of breaking up with me,,,,It takes time but you will eventually move on. and let him find somewhere else to live...he's the one that left...It's like calling saves on a seat..you move your feet you lose your seat...well same goes here you cheat...go live on the street.
Stand your ground and keep the place!!
2006-11-24 12:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by Em W. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any friends or family you can stay with for now? You've got to get out of there and the sooner the better. He's not very nice and is adding insult to injury. I'm sorry for your pain.
2006-11-24 12:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Sounds heart breaking though. He may find that he can't live without you. Give it some time, He may leave, problem solved. You will get your self worth back and look and feel fabulous. This too shall pass my friend. Get over him and move on.
2006-11-24 12:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by fe2bsho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You havent broken up if you're still living together. What he did was truly disrespectful of you though. Kick him to the curb or you move out. You dont need him.
2006-11-24 12:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by MM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one thing you can do to remedy the situation and that is: MOVE OUT/AWAY fast.
He sounds like a selfish jerk and could only enjoy making you suffer.
2006-11-24 12:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gather up your stuff and move out........ it will only cause you a great deal of pain if you dont. You have to decide if you are willing to deal with that pain or not.
2006-11-24 12:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either kick his butt out or pack your stuff and go. If neither of these are options then you are a lot stronger than I could ever be. You go girl.
2006-11-24 12:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋