Is it normal to still feel some emotion when you've been broken up with someone for 5 months? like is it normal to try to figure out why you still feel like it's not over completly yet like something is unfinished? And when what you feel is like lust or whatever it comes and goes.But when it comes it comes on too strong? Hope this ain't confusing but they are many questions and you just don't know?
2006-11-24 12:04:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sleep with someone else
2006-11-24 12:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is very normal to feel the way that you are feeling right now. i felt the same way a very long time ago. you must have really loved that person.unfortunately,you now have to be strong enough to tell yourself that you can move on.
i know you can't stop thinking about him and you feel like there is still a chance of you two being together again.you need to stop being so attached to him and all that you still have of him. if you feel the need to give this another try then go ahead, but remember that you are only putting your self out for more pain.
we all question what has transpired in our lives. you need to let it go and lift your head up high.it may be difficult but you will get over it. time will prove me right. good luck
2006-11-24 20:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by mysticshabs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I broke up w my ex that i thought im going to marry 2 years ago. We've been together for almost 2 years; we even live together. It took me 7 months and meet someone new and actually better than i totally now that i DO DESERVE BETTER and there is someone BETTER OUT THERE:). Just go & meet up w people sweet, do all what you want, even start sort of dating again. When the time comes, the new one will be there and you will feel lucky that you even broke up w ur ex in the first place.
Most people go through post break-up already. You can face it too brave girl; dont worry..it will be over...
Hugs
2006-11-24 20:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is just normal to feel that way specially if the relationship you had is so strong but anything that is finished should be faced up completely go on with your life hang out with your true friends meet new ones its not easy to forget but try to divert your attentiopn into something more fruitful. always remember you are still alive.
2006-11-24 20:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by lina i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been trying to seek the same answer. A girl liked me, but then I didn't like her, but later on I liked her but she didn't like me. Then I couldn't stop thinking about her. Now I still like her but I don't know if she feels the same way. I have been told that I would get over it because it was just infatuation. But I think she still likes me but just wont tell me. Try to take your mind off relationships, then just try your best to forget about the person. Give yourself self-discipline. You can overcome it over time.
2006-11-24 20:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by SWAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can still have feelings for the guy and it will take time to get over what the two of you had and if you feel that there are still some things left unsaid or whatever then ask him or her and find out .
2006-11-24 20:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is when you need alll your girlfriends. Stay busy. Remember time heals everything. But remember you only live once so enjoy life. Yeah it hurts but at least this will make you stronger for the next one. Don't worry.
2006-11-24 20:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by jenny21gon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why do u see what the person is talking about. What is the worst to happen u get back together or u dont? I mean talking to someone u know is not as difficult as we tend to make it. You are still wanting to know if he is true. I bet he is or he wouldn't go to such lengths.
2006-11-24 20:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy, find a new hobby go out with the girls a lot. its normal, but remember why it went to wrong. try to forget he even exsited and use your friends as therapy. cause you know youll be paying back the favor someday.
2006-11-24 20:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by summerblue722 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best cure is find someone that better than them and looks a lot better you don't even have to like them its just giving your mind something else to do.
2006-11-24 20:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Tori W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES HONEY I DO KNOW. AND FROM YOUR QUESTIONS I THINK YOU ARE VERY YOUNG.
I'M AN OLDER WOMAN AND FELL "IN LOVE" WITH THIS MAN A LITTLE OVER 4 YEARS AGO. AT TIMES I THOUGT I WAS REALLY OVER HIM "THISTIME". BUT I STILL FEEL THAT IT AN UNFINISHED CHAPTER IN MY LIFE.
2006-11-24 20:13:33 · answer #11 · answered by basskickinmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋