It was my birthday and my boyfriend went out for dinner with family and friends.There was a lady on that table,friend of a friend.My boyfriend was talking with her and when a big plate with fish came he cut and put a piece in her plate.When he realised i saw that, he started putting fish in everyone elses plates.i Left it there and didnt say anything about it.what does it mean that he was flirting in front of me.?he doeasnt love me?
2006-11-24 12:02:30 · 23 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he's a typical stupid guy who thinks with his penis not his brain. Maybe let this one slide, but if I were you I'd not give him any for a month. He'll learn. You have to teach men, they're like dogs.
2006-11-24 12:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If they are: 1) Smiling alot 2) Making Eye Contact 3) Asking a ton of questions about each other 4) Using Innocent Touch Then he is flirting with her in front of you. Hope this helps :)
2016-05-22 23:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. It was a first time thing and it really could've been a number of things give it time and if it happens again then you can decide what to do then. Please don't listen to the girls that say talk to him about it or dump him... you're jumping to conclusions by following that advice.... I guarantee saying anything to him will put him on the defense and put a lot more tension on the relationship and to dump him for something you don't know was more than him being a guy who has a girlfriend he loves but doesn't see anything wrong with being nice to attractive girls.
2006-11-24 12:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was being polite (and showing off a little) I don't know the specifics, so it's hard for me to advise. My husband and I are both horrid flirts, but that's just part of our personality, nothing more. We know this about each other and so it's no big deal. It's also NOTHING MORE than harmless flirting. You'll have to be the judge of that. P.S. Happy Birthday!
2006-11-24 12:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...that may not necessarily be the flirting you think it is. While it is possible, I tend to interact with most women like that, not trying to flirt but just to be a gentleman. If he reacted that way, it's possible he could tell by the look on your face that it didn't please you that he directed his attention to the one girl. To be fair, I have to say not all guys are jerks and some are gentlemen. Sometimes gentlemen aren't given the credit they deserve because the way they act isn't normal to most people. I can't really say whether or not he's a gentleman because I've never met him, but you have to understand they do exist.
2006-11-24 12:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Gray 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of fish in the sea. I think I would wait a day or so and watch him. If you really like being with him, forget it. Maybe you were reading too much into it. If he continues to make you feel bad, throw him back. Life is too short for you and him to play games.
2006-11-24 12:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by conniekins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he was flirting. Maybe he was just attracted to her, and wanted to be nice and act like a gentleman. But it's not flirting. Flirting would have been making conversation or smiling at her. I wouldn't take this kind of behavior too seriously.
2006-11-24 12:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Yuri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to that guy that just answered. Maybe your boyfriend wasn't trying to flirt. Maybe he's just a really friendly guy. I've seen guys like that and have dated them. But even if he was flirting..i don't think that it changes weather or not he loves you, maybe just weather or not he respects you. Communication is key to any relationship...you should tell him how you feel. He needs to know cause if not he could just do it again thinking you have no problem with it.
2006-11-24 12:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by ultrasexy_247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could mean a number of things. He could have a lower interest level in you than earlier in your relationship, he could have sincerely just been playing around, or maybe he just has a flirtatious nature and he likes to flirt.
2006-11-24 12:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by TravisButtaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men flirt. It is embedded in their DNA. At least he's not being secretive about it. If you can deal with a flirtatious man then go for it, but it does not mean he doesn't love you.It just means he's a man!
2006-11-24 12:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you have an over active imagination.i don't see that he did any thing wrong. and let me tell you, if every time your boyfriend talks to a girl, this is how you will be thinking. it wont last between you. so, i suggest that you have a little more faith in him and your self, and most of all in your relationship.
2006-11-24 12:12:10 · answer #11 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋