He's always with his friends hes cheated on me once a year ago and weve been together for like five years. Now he never spends anytime with me he's always with his friends and I cant ever join them. Everyday he wakes up and calls them and stays gone...I sit at home and worry and cant stop thinking about it the whole entire time hes gone. Ive gone so far as calling him and begged him to spend time with me for once, and I yell at him. He never tells me what hes doing or whos there or anything. How can I get him to spend more time with me?
2006-11-24 12:00:23 · 10 answers · asked by Kimberly n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, it's the mood I am in, but go look in the mirror, I bet you have sucker written right across your forehead.
But seriously, I am sure you are a very good person who is worthy of much more but just don't know it..and you never will as long as you keep allowing this to happen to you. Don't try to change him it won't work. Change your opinion of what you deserve and you will get it.
You deserve love and respect, not abuse and neglect!!!!!
2006-11-24 12:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by crct2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you think about wanting to spend time with him, think about what it is that is holding your relationship together. something happened along the ways and you guys lost the communication.
if there isnt any communication between the 2 of you, it can lead to a lot of things (i.e. cheating, lying, etc).
i think its best that you ask him if he still wants to be in the relationship because if he doesnt really care for it, then you shouldnt have to waste your time worrying about him if he isnt doing the same for you.
if he wants to be in the relationship, make him understand that you are his partner and confess your feelings about being left out in the loop when it comes to his whereabouts, etc.
stand up for yourself. be independent. if the situation worsens, your best bet is to just leave him and move on.
goodluck.
2006-11-24 12:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't ... he's spending time w/ another girl ... the friends are just a cover ... no one spends that much time w/ friends ... he's looking for you to dump him so that he's not the bad guy ... you need to stop begging him to spend time with you and start looking for a way out of this relationship.
2006-11-24 12:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by emnari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear, you've spent a lot of time with this guy, and it sounds like hes over you..if he doesnt want to be around you any longer, then perhaps he is seeing someone else..do you have single friends? if you do, then stop waiting around for him and go out with them..dont be like i was, it'll only make you unhappy..i realized i needed to get out and do the same thing, once there, i did have fun...also, he realized he was losing me, and changed his tune..but that was for me, i only hope it can work for you..good luck..
2006-11-24 12:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by Nikkib 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to tell him ur feelings and how u feel about him always hangin out with his friends and after that see if he changes if he doesnt than try to buy him things and if u have tried that then whatch the too little,toolate, music video from jojo
2006-11-24 12:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by lil_d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uve got several red flags waving in ur face sweets.... hes lost interest... hes keeping u on the back burner or hes having his cake and eating it too..move on...itll be the best for u
2006-11-24 12:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by celestialshorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't you get the hint? hes through with you, he just hasn't got the balls to tell you yet
2006-11-24 12:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is his favorite thing to do... ask him to do that... if that dont work one day follow him and see what he is up to... he might be cheating again... dont risk it..
2006-11-24 12:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ballerbabe32 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on...
plenty of fish...blah blah blah
2006-11-24 12:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by m t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL!!
2006-11-24 12:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Birdie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋