I am a gymnast, surfer, dancer, lax player and I race cars. Before I raced this guy he would run half my workout with me(5miles) and his friends all said he liked me. I beat him and now he runs all 10 miles with me and talks to me a lot more at school. Wouldn't most guys give up cuz all they want is sex?? Wouldn't most guys be pissed they lost to a girl in a tricked out bmw, porsche, lexus, toyota, scion, or mitsubishi?? I am not all butch. I am not overlyfemimine either. Should I be happy he's still trying or wonder if he's like a stalker.
It all began a month ago. I like him but like to make guys work up the courage and ask me out.
Is he the norm.?? Should he be mad cuz he lost??
He's hot and sweet but my friend likes him, so when he asked me out this morning when I was going to practice was I right to say no?? I really like him tho but don't wanna hurt my friend.
Does he seem like he's in it 4 sex?? Do guys go this far 4 sex??
2006-11-24 11:59:52 · 9 answers · asked by Nicoletta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What??? I'm sorry, but I'm lost in your bizarre passive/aggressive behavior. Either you want to date the guy or not. If you said no, I guess you're really not interested, and I hope for his sake that he gives up on you right now.
2006-11-24 12:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's get this straight.
You're worried because the guy is mature enough not to be offended by losing to you?
Why are you assuming he's in it just for sex? Doesn't seem like it to me. Seems more like he's trying to show you that the two you have common interests, and that he's a good guy.
He's not a loser, or a jerk, and he feels like maybe he could learn something from you. Besides, these days, we don't have to work that hard to get some.
You're blocking yourself from possible happiness, and sweetie, you need to get out of your own way. The man is into you, and you're about to throw a good thing away - for what? You're trying to run him off - why?
You and your friend need to have a talk. HE CHOSE YOU. HE DOESN'T WANT HER. HE WANTS YOU.
She'll get over it.
2006-11-24 20:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him? Listen, there is no reason to say no because of a friend. If she is a true friend she will support you! And not every single guy out there wants sex. He sounds nice and you should give him a shot. There are reasons to say no and reasons to Say yes. Again, don't just say no because of a friend! Cause you might find yourself saying no to every guy because he is (a) liked by a friend or (b) "out to get sex" when really hes not.
And you shouldn't be worried about the sex, cause if its true, you just tell him your not interested. Give him a try, you never know...
2006-11-24 20:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by Horselover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he dont want a booty call, maybe he is a good guy who wants to get to know ya b4 he bones ya..i mean why did u say no to someone u liked dont make any sense. maybe all u really want is a prick who will dick u around and treat u like crap. i mean to hell with the good ones, right? no, I dient think so. tell him ud love to go out n do something , and that u was just alil caught off guard when he asked u. see what he is about, he is taken the time to find out bout u, and he isnt mad bc u beat him bc he is a bigger man than that.
2006-11-24 20:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ! GUYS DON'T GO THIS FAR FOR THE SEX , BUT THEY DO FOR A GREAT FRIEND . AND IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU BLEW IT , YOU SEE A GREAT RELATION-SHIP STARTS AS GREAT FRIENDS THEN PROGRESSES , YOUR FRIENDS ARE WRONG AND SO ARE YOU , YOU SEE MY WIFE AND I WERE GREAT FRIENDS FOR A LONG TIME AND THEN DATED AND NOW WE'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 38 YRS. AND YET I STILL LOVE HER I THINK THE WORLD OF HER AND I STILL MISS HER WHEN SHES AT WORK ON MY DAYS OFF , AND SHE WAS LIKE YOU . SHE WAS AS BUTCH AS THEY CAME ,SHE WORKED IN AN ELECTRONICS SHOP WHERE SHE WOULD GET INTO FIST FIGHTS WITH GUYS AND SHE WOULD BEAT THE CRAP OUT OF THEM ,BUT WITH ME , WE WERE THE MATCH I'M A BODY-GUARD FOR THE MOTION PICTURES AND NOW SHE WORKS IN THE RETAIL BUSINESS LONG HOURS IN THE MANAGEMENT END OF THE BUSINESS BUT , SHE LOVES IT AND I BACK HER 100% NO MATTER WHAT , SO THINK ABOUT IT BEFORE YOU DIS TROY HIS FRIEND-SHIP COMPLETELY.
2006-11-24 20:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by I'M JUST TRYING TO HELP YOU 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, you never know till you try! And as for your friend, is she worth giving up? I can't answer much more, but hey I tried! ^_^
2006-11-24 20:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Sissy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax and stop over-analyzing the situation...
2006-11-24 20:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweet heart you have no question you just wanted to brag!!!!!
2006-11-24 20:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by *PEACE BEGINS WITH A SMILE* 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your wrong your a female !
2006-11-24 20:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋