i had sex with a friend who is going though a divorce. it was strictly friends with benefits. then he called it off because he felt guilty (he is seperated, but the papers aren't signed yet) - now he is talking to other girls and pushing me away from him. What did I do wrong? does he like me and is scared?
2006-11-24 11:55:38 · 7 answers · asked by sassy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He had sex with you. The excitement of the chase is over. Guys like having sex with someone they've never slept with before. I once lost interest in a girl after the first kiss.
2006-11-24 11:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by mrmanseven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry honey. .you just fell for the biggest trick in the book.. you got used for sex. then again, sounds like you were using him for sex too. learn from this experience and move on with your life..
divorce is a messy situation.. people who are going thru a divorce are constantly confused and also in a state of shock and disbelief. they can't think rationally.. don't expect anything he does to make sense until he is able to resolve his issues and get back on his feet..
2006-11-24 20:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had sex w/ your friend and he's feeling guilty because your friends and to him it may of been meaningless but to you it may of meant something ... he probably feels as if he used you and is now looking for some woman to just treat like dirt because he's hating his ex ...
just be his friend, don't read into the sex and support him in what ever he is going through.
2006-11-24 19:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he just needed to be with someone at the time of his separation..unfortunately, it sounds like he used you..if hes talking with other girls, then hes playing the field..you didnt do anything wrong, hes just going through a very needy situation right now..
2006-11-24 20:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Nikkib 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were a diversion, a release from obvious problems he was experiencing in his marriage. Now that he's nearing his divorce, you don't mean anything. Forget him and move on.
2006-11-24 19:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's your best answer- He was just using you for Sex. I think he's just confused, and used you to satisfy his desires.
2006-11-24 19:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong except in his head. Stay away from this jerk.
2006-11-24 19:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋