I love my boyfriend...and he says he's going to kiss me. I'm SO happy about this.... But, I haven't kissed anyone (ever) and I'm scared. He's a senior, and I'm a freshman....what if he tries to do something (sexual) to me!? What would I do?
2006-11-24 11:52:36 · 17 answers · asked by Sissy S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I use to be sooo afraid to kiss a guy bc I had never done it before but that's normal at your age. Soon you'll get over that, if he tries something sexual and that's not what you want as soon as things go to far tell him to stop and that you don't want to participate any longer. If he's a good guy he will respect your decision, if he doesn't then get rid of him.
2006-11-24 11:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by beauty 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared of kissing him, it will turn out good no matter how scared you might be. It always seems like you will screw up kissing somehow, but you never do. If he tries to do anything sexual to you, just tell him to back off, since it's too soon for you.
2006-11-24 12:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by volcania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about it. He knows how much younger than him you are... If he cares about you, he'll wait until you are more comfortable. Your first kiss is very special. You will remember it for the rest of your life. If u aren't ready to kiss him then don't! You want it to be a good memory. When the time is right, it will come naturally.
2006-11-24 12:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Valerie1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse its normal. I remember the first time i made out and kissed. The first time i made out, i was really nervous and i had to be forced into it. Really its easy, just tilt your head so its comfortable and go for the mouth and just go with the flow, if you make out just make the same moves as he does with his tongue. Really its more like an act and it comes to you straight away and kissing is enjoyable and i prefer it to like any of the nasty stuff lol. Its very addictive to.
2006-11-24 11:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is the most normal thing in the world!
If He tries something more just tell him no, and then be happy and don't regret anything
2006-11-24 11:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by crazyloverboyman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just get the kiss over with. kissing can be very innocent, and I really doubt he will try something sexual just from that first kiss. but if you find that it is leading to other things, like touching, etc. that you don't like, tell him to stop.
2006-11-24 11:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by -- 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him no that your not that kinda girl and he will respect you mor and if not then you dont need him find a sweet boy who will not all guys are dogs and some have more things on there mind than sex good luck
2006-11-24 14:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him and tell him you've never kissed before..unless you already have..but dont be afraid to kiss him..its only natural..but if he wants more then that, just tell him your not ready for that..if he respects you in any way, he wont pressure you..he will be patient..
2006-11-24 11:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Nikkib 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u really want to kiss him then do it...if anything happens tell him to stop
2006-11-24 11:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by Tonia K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if ur just going to kiss make sure u both have tic tacs...kick him where it counts if he trys anything els
2006-11-24 11:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋