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Question

im 15 and i havent had a kiss or a boyfriend. i kinda want one before the holidays. im kinda shy around guys.i want to become better and closer friends with more guys. i dont have one close guy friend. what to do?! please help! 10 points for the best!
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Answer 1

Hello:

First off don't worry too much about the first kiss or the first boyfriend. My first "real" kiss (if you don't count the kissing of boys in like preschool), was during a game of truth or dare to a guy that I didn't like at all. I was 13 years old. I have always regretted that I don't have this great memory of a first kiss, because after all you only get a first kiss once.

Is there a guy you like? Don't pick a guy to be your boyfriend just because you want a boyfriend and a first kiss. I know when I was that age everyone was getting boyfriends and breaking up with them, and I didn't even like half the guys that were my "boyfriend" but I just wanted to have a boyfriend.

My suggestion is to just let it happen naturally, because it will happen. Maybe try to be a little more outgoing, start talking to that cute guy that sits near you in class, or start saying hello to more guys in the hallway. Little steps like that will help other people start to chat with you, and eventually you'll have more guy friends than you know what to do with.

As for the holiday's deadline, I wouldn't worry about it too much. It will happen, maybe not by Christmas time, but when it does happen you'll be happy. You won't want to miss out on a great relationship.

I hope this helps, and good luck.

Answer 2

I didnt have my first "romantic" kiss until I was 15! Dont push it, It will come with time, I know thats probably all you are thinking about right now, but if you obsess about it, when it does happen, it wont be what you expected. Plus, what you dont think about happening, will eventually happen.

Answer 3

hi.

I think that you have to try be yourself around boys. they will like you, don't be shy!