Me and her dated for a year and a half. Things were great and we didn't have any problems. This year things got extremely busy and even though I wasn't great with it at first I became towards the end..... Well one day I went down to her room to tell her how great we were and how much i loved her. Then she tells me she wants a break.
I wasn't happy about the break. I loved her alot and I know for a fact that she loves me. I purposed and everything. And she said that she still wants to get married just she needs a break right now. I had kind of a fit for two days because I don't know why she needed this... but after the second day I was fine. She threthened to break up with me on the second day because i wouldnt accept the break... thing is, i just needed some time. She broke up with me on the fourth day... said we been broke up because of the hwole thing on the seocnd day... and all of a sudden she says that she doesnt care about me as much anymore...
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2006-11-24 11:22:59 · 14 answers · asked by X Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So she breaks up with me. Tells her friends what happaned and doesnt pick up my phone calls... and i called her alot just to find out why... me and her seemed perfect... and i believed we were close because we didn't have many problems. We had small things. And now she just seems cold and heartless. Why? Could this be a test shes putting me through? Does any of this sound right at all? Should i fight for her? What should i do? I'm so confused.
2006-11-24 11:24:19 · update #1
Sorry to say, but being that I've pulled the whole "I need a break" thing one too many times..she's found someone else and just doesn't want to tell you. But for your sake, I hope that's not it.
2006-11-24 11:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Amiditei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I had a similar issue, though I didn't need the fit for it to go sour. That's just an excuse to break up with you. Pretty much, she doesn't know what she wants and you're complicating things by trying to move forward quicker than she is. Now that things are as bad as they are, I'd say just move on. If she gets over her issues, and you can work things out later, that's great. Just don't expect it because it probably won't happen. Whether it's your fault or not, I can't say. All I know is she broke up with you for personal reasons and, until those are sorted out, she won't come back. You can wait if you want, but she'll probably have another guy in a month or so, if she doesn't already. If any of this upsets you, I'm sorry, but it is probably the truth of the matter. you can accept it or deny it. I'm sorry this happened to you and I wish you luck in the future.
2006-11-24 11:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by Gray 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! I'm sorry but it's over! As painful as it is, move on. Can you really trust a relationship with someone that is already tiring of you after one year? If you marry her, she'll still be looking for someone else! Whoever that may be, it won't be you!
2006-11-24 11:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO DON'T FIGHT BACK IF SHE WANTS TO BE A BRAT LET HER BE!!!! THINGS TO U SEEMED GREAT BUT APPARENTLY THEY WEREN'T FOR HER. IF I WERE U I WOULD LEAVE HER ALONE AND JUST START HANGING OUT WITH PALS AND SEE IF SHE RETURNS TO U. AS A WOMAN I WOULD TELL U THAT IF EVERY THING WAS GOING GREAT BETWEEN US I WOULD NOT ASK U 4 A BREAK UNLESS I WAS INTERESTED IN ANOTHER MAN!!!!
2006-11-24 11:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by cristina v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to have to tell you this but she probably was thinking about breaking it off on the first day and you stressing pushed her to make the final decision. she may be strugglling with alot of feelings and its up to her to make the right decisions, sounds like the doubts she was having ere alot bigger than she let on in the first place
2006-11-24 11:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by ed and ali x x x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her go, she just doesn't want to see you anymore. Sometimes we get sick of people. That's all. She's tired of the relationship, it's not doing it for her anymore. Cheer up, you'll find the right person.
2006-11-24 12:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Maji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up my friend---when someone doesnt want to see someone anymore then thats that accept it and move on with your life and let her move on with hers===why is it people cant accept when somene tells them they are through--i feel its a macho thing --so stop being macho and accept
good luck
2006-11-24 11:34:04 · answer #7 · answered by willtdn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was over in the 1st 'break'. Odds are she found some else she likes more than you...best to move on and find some one else yourself.....
2006-11-24 11:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is a test then turn and walk away, you don't need a female that is wishy washy in your life, tell her it is over for good and move on.. Good Luck
2006-11-24 11:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GWHEIVE HER SOME TIME IT MAY JUST A CASE OF COLDFEET.I DID THE SAME THING AND I HAVEBEEN MARRIED 36HAPPY YEARS.TOTHE GUY.SOMETIME YOU THINK OF THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH ONE PERSON.AND GET SCARED
2006-11-24 11:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by Shirley B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋