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i tried of people that i love taking ,all of me and not giving back...i so tried, i just want the pain to stop,,,please help me somebody. because i don't what to do

2006-11-24 11:22:44 · 15 answers · asked by martha h 2 in Health Mental Health

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I know how that is. Let the people who are taking away your energy and patients know what's going on. If it doesn't get through to them, then you need to realize that they are not worth your time. Stop talking to them. You deserve better.

2006-11-24 11:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Take immediate inventory of your assets. You are a giving person and you have people in your life that you love. I'm sure that they love you too and it sounds as if they depend on you. So, to begin with you are not alone in this world as so many people are. Try some tough love, think of yourself and do not be so available. Take some time and space for yourself. Take a walk, read a book, watch television or some activity that gives you time to be alone and think. Then force yourself to say NO. When you are stronger you will not need them to give back because you will stand on your own two feet. Good luck!

2006-11-24 11:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by madisonian51 4 · 1 0

You have the illness, Depression. You need to see a doctor to get on some medication and you need to see a counselor to help you see how your behavior is contributing to your depression.

Those people who keep taking from you and not giving back, can only do that because you allow it. There are a lot of people like you (including myself) who have difficulty saying "no" to people. A good book to help you with this is, "When I say no, I feel guilty".

You need to see a counselor to help you see why you let people take advantage of you and to help you turn this around.

God bless you.

2006-11-24 14:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0 0

I understand how you feel. I am the type of person that gives to any and everyone that needs help but then when I am in need they turn their backs. I myself gave up my life to move my kids and I 3000 miles away from family and friends to care for my Grandfather. I am tired. Everywhere I turn someone wants something. My Grandfather has told me that my life is F***ed up and yes it is because I moved. I am very tired so I cry and pray. That helps me. I have no one but God to turn to.Then on top everything else my ex-boyfriend stole much needed money from me so I prayed. God is with you and you are not alone in these situations. We all go through them and personally I don't think you are serious about killing yourself or you wouldn't have asked for help. I will say a prayer for you and God will answer.

2006-11-24 13:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by Staci R 3 · 0 1

Its a conscious effort on your part to keep away from people who in the 1st place dont deserve your love. Forgive these people who have hurt you as forgiveness is the 1st step to remove the hurt and bitterness in you. Is not easy but a conscious effort in your mind to say "I forgive". Start with a new life - new habits, mix with good sincere people (forget about being friends with ex - it doesnt work), new sport/exercise, go on a holiday. Keep yourself busy with meaningful activities so that you can think less of the pain. Be mindful not to jump into anoher relationship if you are not fully healed - vicious cycle may continue. Lastly, if you seek Jesus, He is the answer to removing our hurts/help with forgiveness and He can fill us with peace of God and may the joy of the Lord be your strength.

2006-11-24 11:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lee S 1 · 2 0

I'm sorry for your pain you need to change your outlook on life think the only one u need 2make happy is u just do that focus on your joy not others always remember u r #1then others cant take advantage of u good luck

2006-11-24 13:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by purple_puma 2 · 0 0

get help immediately! the pain you feel CAN and WILL go away but you cant do it alone. you need help in the form of drugs and/or therapy--take the first step, its not that hard once you start and it'll save your life. theres a whole new world out there for you to start living if want. go to your family doctor or a trained counselor/therapist. they will show you the first steps you need to take. God bless

2006-11-24 11:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by mickey 5 · 3 0

i swear, if i did'nt know better, i would think that i wrote this. i dont know anything 2 tell u. the ONLY think that keeps me going,[i know that this is sooo corny] is the fact that i have GOD on my side. i talk 2 him all the time & it makes me feel better. REALLY, IM NOT PUTTIN U ON, & I AM NOT A HOLY ROLLER TYPE . but its true, if u never have talked 2 HIM its not 2 late. i dont go 2 church. sometimes i talk 2 him on the comode[lol] he ALWAYS makes u feel better. lets talk 2 him 2gether,ok?

2006-11-24 11:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by big foot 4 · 2 0

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2006-11-24 12:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by LIz 4 · 0 1

Are you serious. You need to see Doctor, counsellor, or therapist. Why do people have to give back. You should give because you want to not for what you will receive back.

2006-11-24 11:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by hornyheluk 2 · 0 1

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