but i am not sure if i should ask this girl out because her good friend hates me becuase she thought i liked her she sent me around five letters of hate and i am not sure if i should ask this girl out
but the only reason why i liked her friend was so i have a reason to be around her
2006-11-24 11:07:16 · 13 answers · asked by Eidelberg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think the girl who loves u feel jelouse now so take ur causion from her because she may tell ur lovely girl any wrong informatin about u trying to make her leave u
so take in ur mind first that girl feeling and try to meet ur girl without her friend known
2006-11-24 11:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a call you have to make for yourself.
No one owns anyone else and you are free to ask out whomever you will, however an unstable person can cause a lot of trouble.
You are admitting that you may have been a little dishonest or misleading by liking her her friend to ger close to her. Even if you were, the girl that likes you doesn't own you and you owe her nothing.
You can try asking out the girl you like, but do so without expectation and accept whatever answer she gives you whether it be "yes" or "no." She doesn't owe you a big long explanation with her "no" and you don't have to hear it if you don't want to.
Good luck!
2006-11-24 19:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i have come to understand in situations like that, (ive had a similar situation with me) just ignore that other girl. be nice to her though...both of them. show her that u really are a good guy, and that like the other girl and not the hate-letter one.
take a wide eye of the situation, and see where its going. how does she react around you? you may just be modest to the situation, but look at how she acts around you. she may be thinking of the same think about you.
2006-11-24 19:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Alden H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not care about the girls friend because it is not her you are concerned with. just pay attention and spend time with this girl you like and find out if she likes you the same way as you like her and if she does then go on from there. Good Luck!
2006-11-24 19:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by mack smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should still ask her out, and it would help if you also add that you didnt like her friend, its just that you wanted to get closer to her, she might like that. And anyways who cares if her friend doesnt like you, you arent going to date her friend, so tell the girl and let her decide on her own. Dont give up without having tried.
2006-11-24 19:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Esme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats why her friends dont like you because you dont like them ,you just like the girl,now you should see how her frends feel about you.but its not about the freinds it's about the girl,when the time is right ask her and if she say no,the just move on
2006-11-24 19:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that u should be worried about the girls friends because i mean if the girl truely likes u then she would have enough sense to date u and not listen to her stupid friend.
2006-11-24 19:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by b&a4_ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out. but first flirt with her to make sure she likes you. who cares with her freinds say. by the way i have the same problem
2006-11-24 19:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by jes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ask her out... don't be a "chicken"..
And tell her friend that you want her only as a friend..
2006-11-24 19:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the killing whats the worst can happen apart from NO
2006-11-24 19:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by Robert k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋