My friend sleeps over at her b/f's house a lot. He has been with her for 2yrs and throught thick and thin.(death, cheating, rape, and the happy times) She says they don't do any thing. But I am worried that no 16yr old boy would be ok with his g/f sleeping in his arms. Is he gonna push her for more?? If he is okay with it does it mean they already have sex?? Is he gonna like randomly rape her one night??
BTW: She's 16 as is he.
Can you please answer??
2006-11-24 11:05:47 · 20 answers · asked by Nicoletta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to see her get hurt anymore. Does he seem like he only wants sex or a real relationship??
2006-11-24 11:11:03 · update #1
not all guys are sex fiends. he might actually care for her and respect her enough to wait untill she is ready
2006-11-24 11:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by june.thirteenth 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They have probably had sex. She may not want people to know because at that age its NOT something that you want to be spread around school or for your parents to find out. If she was raped, there is a good chance that they are not having sex. Rape can scar people for life. She may like sleeping at his house in his arms because she feels safe, especially with the bad things that they have gone through. Also, he may feel that he is protecting her by doing that as well.
Since they have been together so long and through so much, I highly doubt he is going to randomly rape her.
You said you dont want her to get hurt anymore...how is she getting hurt? That might be an issue. How do you know she is getting hurt at all? Honestly, hes a guy and guys, especially teenagers are all about sex. But because of the length of the relationship and the things that have happened I do not think that he is in it for the sex. No guy would deal with all of that and a crying/scared girlfriend by their side all the time just to get laid. There are easier ways.
2006-11-24 11:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Amy*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one if a couple of 16 yr. olds young adults sleep together alot, the way I see it they are doing something not just hugging and kisssing. And also why rape her went and if she wants it all the time. Cause a guy won't sleep in the arms of a girl just to sleep. SO something is already going on. But to start with why do you care cause you should have cared before they were sleeping together. Now is a little too late. SO if that's what they want, you can't stop them.
2006-11-24 11:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 16, I know I was preoccupied with the thought of sex. But I didn't finally meet someone who was willing until I was 21. Is he gonna push her for more? I dunno. What kind of guy is he? Does it mean they've already had sex? Not necessarily. Maybe. Is he gonna randomly rape her one night? Not if he truly cares for her. She's sleeping over? And their parents are OK with this? Sounds like there's a whole lot of trust, or they're just plain idiots. As for your "friend," maybe they're just buds. 16? I wouldn't tempt fate or natural urges.
2006-11-24 11:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Doc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are the parents when the sleeping over is going on? And what is this death?cheating? Rape bit? Jeeze! 2 yrs of just the routine of sleeping in each others arms? What is wrong with this picture? I repeat, where are the parents?
2006-11-24 11:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all how does his mom feel about her sleepin over omg! Anyway if she sleeps over they don't have to b havin sex EVERYnight and yes a guy can just handle sleepin w/ his arms around a girl...if he's had some b4 feel me... at that age i slept over my bf house lots too (sneaking) and his dad knew and was cool w/ it as long as i didn't get preg. and sometimes we just hung out i just liked being w/ him and wanted to b near him u know how that is... never the less we stayed together untill age 23 and i got preg. so there is proof if u are disciplined and mature u can not end up on the bad side of things
2006-11-24 11:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh. You believe your friend when she says they don't do anything? RIGHT! And Santa Claus has a workshop. Sixteen year old kids can't predict the consequences of their actions. Somebody is kidding somebody.
2006-11-24 11:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had telephone intercourse with a boy (i'm a boy ;) ) as quickly as i replaced into sixteen now 17 he replaced into 14 and it replaced into wonderful xD I dunno what u tryna say you began crying over what? i do no longer think of there is something incorrect with telephone intercourse do exactly what you go with. Sorry if it quite is not the respond on your question yet i are not getting it.
2016-12-13 13:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not always about sex hell i sleep over at my b.f.s house all the time and cuddle but we have never had sex nor do we plan to not untill both of us are ready and if you wanna no if she has had sex w/ his just ask her
2006-11-24 11:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They had sex def. They're 16. i'm 14 and i have had my share of things. trust me they've had sex. Y do u care anyway?
2006-11-24 11:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jake 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋