Can weed really change you?

Question

When i met my boyfriend he was drug free he was 18 i was 17 everyting was cool we would go out have fun spend everyday together sometimes (i would tell him go with ur friends) i trusted him that much.He would drink ocacionally.

Now hes 21 and im 20 so anyways a yr ago he started smoking weed.Things were bad but he was kind of the same person.Well then he started pushing me away.. Now the visits were hr min visits every once in a while like once twice a wk.Communication got ruined we wouldnt really talk and if so it was about weed

I thought it was a phase untill his friend got a job a couple of months ago at a lab where they prescribe medicated weed for terminal diseases and for ppl who are either dying or really sick.well he just became paranoyd things between us had been getting better untill he started smoking he became paranoyd he became violent at home now i would try to talk and we would argue he turned into this whole different person

HELP dont know how to help him =o[

Answer 1

Yes, it stimulates hormones like melatonin and estrogen. Male brains can begin to be wired in the female pattern.
Extended use can cause paranoia too.

Answer 2

Well, drugs can really mess people up. They get addicted and all they care about is the drug and sometimes they become focused on themselves and push others away. I am not saying this is the case with your man b/c I don't know him personally. But it is hard when relationships change. I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going well. I would just say to talk to him about it if at all possible in a nonconfrontational way. Tell him that u r concerned and that u feel it is affecting the relationship. Good luck and remember that u can't change people. They have to want to change themselves. Also weed usually causes people to be mellow not violent, so maybe that is from alcohol use. Maybe not though. Go with what ur heart tells u to do!!! Be safe.

Answer 3

It sure can, and you can't change him, only he can do that. You need to leave him, he is not going to be any help to you, and things is only going to get worst. Tell him it is you, or the weed, now see who he picks. yes, he may say you, but he will not stick to it, because they start out with weed, and then it goes to the harder drugs. Get out while you can. Hang in their, move on, things will get better for you! Don't put up with this any more! Start to think of yourself!

Answer 4

Weed can change you.
If your boyfriend cant stop the weed and choose you over it.
Then he is not worth it.
I understand weed can change you and make you all weird and its a addiction.
BUT look when he isnt high, if he cant choose you over that weed
its over.

Love is more important.
And commucation is key.

Answer 5

is he really worth the worry? when i found out ny BF had been doin drugs since he was 7, i broke us up and then got all my friends to get him to quit. it was easier when he wasnt my "my one and only" i could be as mean and forceful with him as iwanted and it wouldnt hurt our realtionship anymore. he quit in about 3 months.

Answer 6

Talk to him. My friend was a drug dealer and I used to get drugs from a friend of my b/f. Talk it out with him and he will understand. I am glad sum1 did this for me.

Answer 7

yes you can change people but someguyz give others a bad name and dont want to change try to get him into rehab or get him to quit n tell him if he doesnt that ur gonna leave him

Answer 8

sounds it is time to move on. better things await you. some people can't handle some things souds like he can't handle weed.

Answer 9

weed can lead to hard drugs...