and i'm not saying she's cheating - a date which i set up for her to go on.
crazy?. the idea actaully orriginated by her. we went out for a year, broke up for a year, and got back. while mending we were very open about all of these wild fantasies we had. one of hers was that she's go out and explore her sexuality with somebody with alot of experience and then blow me away (to this day, i have a signifigant edge over her in the belt notch department).
once we stablized we stopped talking about most of it, and pretend like we never told each other. but we've often talked about this one, and it drives us both wild.
so a freind of mine from college is going to be in town until sunday, and it seems perfect. he's 'cute' and a ladies man. he won't be in town for long and live far enough away not to be a long term threat. and he's agreed to my conditions (protection and no rough housing)
tonight the big night, and i have no plans. sitting at home will drive me crazy. any ideas?
2006-11-24 11:00:04 · 29 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
you're an idiot.
2006-11-24 11:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Ok... that is really weird... First of all, how do you figure she'll get all the experience you say she's missing just by spending a night with another man? Since you claim you have such great experience, why don't YOU teach her? Any normal couple would think of that first. And, some other thing: you say you've been together for one year, then she's been with other guys, I assume, then back with you. And after all this time, she's still useless in bed (at least for you)? Did you ever thought that maybe she's not good in bed or you two just aren't good for each other (which, by the way, will never change)? I'm sorry to say, but I can't picture you two getting married and having a normal family life....
As for what to do tonight... maybe it's a good time to reflect on why you two did this.
2006-11-24 11:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by wiccanwarrior1979 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in spite of how long you have been at the same time and how plenty you like her, the effort-free actuality is that SHE would not LOVE YOU. Sorry to be so blatant, yet you appear to be a real, being concerned guy and you deserve somebody who will love you back. If she's cheating on you, she is exhibiting you extensive disrespect. The undesirable element is which you're letting her. She is usual with she would be able to try this and you will take her back. attempt to be sturdy. tell her you deserve extra suitable and smash up together with her. If i be attentive to this form of female (and my ex substitute into one so i think of I do), she'll be so bowled over by utilising that that she'll without notice be calling and texting you, confessing her timeless love for you. certainly she loves interest and you're indulging her ego at the same time as letting her earnings from you. What approximately you?? Be sturdy and do away together with her. If she's extremely THAT shallow that she's prepared to throw away 3 years only because of the fact some guy flashes some money at her, do you extremely must be together with her besides?
2016-11-26 20:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by kassia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i can tell you one thing which is for you not to call her at all. I know this is a little low but I think u should go out too not with a girl just go out with some of your buddy friends if you have any if not than ask a girl out on a date real quick it wont hurt, but if they keep turning you down than I suggest to go out and have a drink, so you wont be thinking about her being on the date the whole time.
2006-11-24 11:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by IcanHelpyou:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Alan. Plain and simple you are an idiot.
I do not understand all the others who tell you to leave her, it sounds like you planned this. I have some advise for you both.
1. book a vacation thru lifestyles.org for their Jan. trip to Hedonism II if you can still get booked.
2. play by the rules, it's a dangerous game if you don't.
3. accept that you both are interested in swinging openly.
2006-11-24 11:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have plenty of time to try and figure out why the heck you're doing what you're doing! This is NOT a good idea. This is not even a mediocre idea. It's a bad idea and you'd best be prepared if it blows up in your face. If nothing else, you'll sure know not to do it again!
2006-11-24 11:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by clarity 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I doubt this is a real situation. It sounds to me like you are a very lonely person with nothing better to do, and you are just sitting there looking for what kind of answers you get for your fictitious scenario. It's such a shame that you have to waste time doing this...were you not loved enough in your childhood?
2006-11-24 11:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really agree with everyone calling you an idiot. Just because they may not think it's a good idea, if you and your g/f are okay with the situation, then it's all cool to me! Anyway, as far as what you can do...my suggestion is to look at porn and have fun.
2006-11-24 11:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by DaisyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First. of if she was your g/f she would not be on a date??????
2006-11-28 09:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by TalonsMomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you to agreed upon it, you can only sit there and wait. But how are you okay with your girl sleeping with another and then coming home to fu** you? In that case, you might as well be there.
2006-11-24 11:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by 1st time mom 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
call over her best friend, throw a party, or you can go out to the local adult store, get some good videos, and you have yourself and your friends, and also why on earth would you do this? you like passing your girlfriend around?
2006-11-24 11:03:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋