Technically i'm mixed. At the school i go to i NEVER see white guys with black girls. Black is a minority at my school but all of the black guys are UGLY. I am very much attracted to white guys. My family jokingly says it doesn't matter cause i'm mixed but... So ne way do you like black girls? I'm not a sterotype either, i am not loud and whatever people think black people are.
2006-11-24 10:57:08 · 15 answers · asked by journe2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not so perfect I said the black GUYS were ugly. I notice the guy that i like look at me( he's white and German) and other guys look at me but since i never see white and black i get the feeling they might be cautious
2006-11-24 11:06:39 · update #1
ok I don't have bad hair its just curly. I don't need perms or anything. I DON'T have a hard time IDENTIFYING myself. I know i'm black thats why i said TECHNICALLY i'm mixed. I don't try to date just white people. None of the black guys here seem attracted to me. There is only majority white at my school and then there is black. I use to live in Oakland and black guys my age like me their and i liked them. Now not the case. i am in good shape and i am not ugly but other races don't seem to like me here. Ok. Truthfully i am fed up with some of the things people are ASSUMING. please don't make assumptions.
2006-11-24 11:13:12 · update #2
Of course no, it all depends on personal taste.... I have many caucasian male friends that are highly attracted to black or mixed... When even have a joke with one (his fiancee is black) "once you go black you don't go back" . And there is nothing wrong with you no being attracted to people your own race. Unless you are like this because of stereotype.
I suggest you a book by Toni Morisson its titled "The bluest eyes" it's about being black and the perception/canon of beauty.
I wish you good luck!
2006-11-24 11:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, it relies upon on the guy. you ought to talk with him approximately it. If he's not fascinated, i'm particular he would be flattered. on the turn element, i'm a black woman who has dated 3 white adult men, and it did no longer artwork out for me. there became maximum of transformations between us that made circumstances awkward, i'm now, married to a black guy and that i'm extra effective than happy and finished. inspite of the undeniable fact that it is the guy, no longer the colour! in case you think of somebody will cope with you extra useful purely based off the colour of their dermis then there is something of course incorrect with you. good success, and that i'm hoping it works out.
2016-10-17 12:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an individual thing...some people won't date outside their race...some will date selectively outside their race...and some don't care what race the other person is, as long as there is attraction....
Be patient...it probably won't be long before you and a guy (of whatever color) meet and dig one another...
2006-11-24 11:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really dependent on the individual. However, I know plenty of white men who love some black women. Usually a man who is secure within himself and loves women, they love women. The skin color has nothing to do with it. God bless****
2006-11-24 11:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm black too and i've lived in a prodominantely white neighborhood most of my life. guys always approached other girls before they came to me, if not at all. but as you get older, and move out of that scene, you'll meet lots of guys who see past superficial high school stuff.
2006-11-24 11:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by damsel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Technically you are black and have a hard time identifying urself as such, you need not to limit urself as I will only date white guys, because ur soul mate may be the blackest person in the world but you will miss out on that because ur mindset is so immature.
....maybe both the black and white guys at your school thinks you are ugly too!!! Sweetie broaden your horizons.
2006-11-24 11:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Hi 7 · 1⤊ 5⤋
i would date them if i was attracted to them, but i'm not
i know a black girl who hangs out with and probably dates white guys. but black & white people usually don't hang out with each other so that's probably why it's not more common.
2006-11-24 11:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A girl is a girl I see no color,all I see is a good hearted girl.
2006-11-24 11:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TO BE NICE: if the majority of the black girls at your school are ugly unforunalty you may be stuck in with the group. TO BE REAL: how is your hair. alot of white guys just dont like the feel or a black girls hair. Ifs its nice and smooth like latin or white hair then its just gonna take time but youll get noticed.
2006-11-24 11:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by notsoperfectgentleman 2 · 1⤊ 5⤋
I can't speak for anyone else, but I'm a white guy and I only date black women.
I am entirely comfortable with this and don't give a flying f'uck what anyone else says or thinks.
EDIT -- It's not "bad hair" it's "nappy hair".
2006-11-24 12:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋